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ROPESESSION… A way into Kinbaku/Shibari by DOACVALE
Docvale is a French rigger.
His early attraction to BDSM practice had revealed itself to him in 2007, he then spent two years maturing his own desires and conception of it. Fascinated by the psychological aspect of domination, it is through the work of François Xees that he discovered the ropes.
After two years playing with ropes, he met Tyka at the end of 2011 and they found a common passion for Japanese ropes bondage. He began practicing regularly and intensively under the influence of Hajime Kinoko and Riccardo Wildties, watching their videos of performances.
Less than a year later he made his first public appearances in France as a performer and joined the educational team at “L’Ecole des Cordes” in Paris.
2013 marked the time of his first international performances in Europe. He kept on improving technically but began to see the “connection” between the rigger and the model in ropes, crossing paths with Riccardo Wildties, Jack TheWhipper and Wykd Dave.
The psychological aspect of ropes became increasingly important in the way he attached and it is at this precise time that he discovered Akira Naka’s kinbaku, the Semenawa. This intense and psychological style of bondage highlighted Docvale’s own BDSM’s expectations and confirmed his dedication to it. He became one of the first French riggers who tied in this style.
In September 2014, it is in collaboration with Riccardo Wildties that they decided to settle “L’Ecole des Cordes” as the first European school dedicated to Akira Naka’s style.
Docvale est un rigger français.
Ses premières attirances pour les pratiques BDSM se révèlent à lui en 2007, il passe alors deux années à mûrir ses envies et sa conception. Fasciné par l’aspect psychologique de la domination, il découvre les cordes au travers du travail de François Xees.
Après deux ans à s’amuser avec quelques cordes, c’est lorsqu’il croise le chemin de Tyka, fin 2011 qu’ils trouvent une passion commune pour le bondage japonais. Il commence à pratiquer de manière régulière et intensive sous les influences de Hajime Kinoko et Riccardo Wildties, visionnant leurs vidéos de performances.
Un peu moins d’un an plus tard, il fait ses premières apparitions publiques en France en tant que performeur et intègre l’encadrement pédagogique de “L’Ecole des Cordes” à Paris.
2013 est l’année des premières performances internationales en Europe. Il continue de se perfectionner techniquement, mais commence à entrevoir la « connexion » attacheur-attachée dans les cordes en croisant les chemins de Riccardo Wildties, Jack TheWhipper et Wykd Dave.
L’aspect psychologique dans les cordes prend de plus en plus d’importance dans sa manière d’attacher et c’est à ce moment là qu’il découvre le kinbaku de Naka Akira, le Semenawa. C’est à ce style de bondage très psychologique qui fait vraiment le lien avec ses attentes BDSM que Docvale va se consacrer. Il devient alors un des tout premiers Français à attacher dans ce style.
En septembre 2014 c’est en collaboration avec Riccardo Wildties qu’ils décident de faire de « L’Ecole des Cordes » la première école d’Europe dédiée au style de Naka Akira.
Voici encore un exemple de contrat que vous pouvez avoir. Tout exemple est bon à prendre. Encore une fois je ne suis pas là pour vendre mais pour informer!
Here is a sample contract that you may have. Every example is worth taking. Again I’m not here to sell but to know!
Moi c’est plus simple je ne fais rien. Je Haaaaiis (avec un grand “h”) les fêtes. Trop de monde dans les clubs en plus on doit se farcir Papy Mamy, trop gros pour passer l’entrée et dégoulinant de sueur d’avoir bu du champagne pour toute l’année. Non vraiment les fêtes c’est pas pour moi. Alors Noël n’en parlons pas, ma mère a eu l’idée de se convertir à la religion juive! Croyez vous ça! HANOUKA et ROCH HACHANA font pas partie de mon vocabulaire. Bref moi je sortirai le deux janvier en ayant d’abord acheté toutes les victuailles restantes au supermarché à moitié prix et j’inviterai mes amis fatigués de leur soirées clichées pour venir s’étendre le ventre gonflé devant une coupe de champagne (encore!) dorée et pétillante… Hihihi 😉
For me it is easier, I do nothing. I Haaate (with a capital “h”) celebrations. Too many people in the clubs and in addition we have to be with Grandpa Grandma, too fat to entry into it and dripping with sweat from drinking champagne for the whole year. Really… the holidays is not for me. So don’t talk about Christmas, my mother had the idea to convert to Judaism! Do you believe that! Hanukkah and ROCH HASHANAH are not part of my vocabulary. In short I will go out on January 2 having first bought all the remaining groceries at the supermarket for half price and I will invite my friends tired of their clichés evenings to come to extend the swollen belly in front of a glass of champagne (again!) golden and bubbly… Hihihi 😉
The first mistake I see from SM novices is thinking there is a right or wrong way to playing. Even if there are some safety rules that should be followed, the only people who make the rules are the ones who are involved in the relationship. If anyone else tells you that you are doing this wrong, tell them that ‘s not they business.
The second mistake is going too fast into things. I know that after years of suppressing this desire it’s very hard to take slowly when you finally find out you aren’t the only one that gets turned on by bondage. But too quickly dominate or submit the other without taking time to get to know some skills, and each other, is actually a lack of time… ans that is the bad kind. When you first get started, take the time to read books and get to know the person you will be playing with.
A thirty mistake the new subs make is submitting to everyone who calls themselves a dominant. Just because someone sticks “Master”, “Mistress” in their username doesn’t mean you have to call them “Sir” or “Madam” or submit to their requests. For the most part, a reputable and experienced Master or Mistress knows this and will not demand the respect. New dominants are sometimes guilty of this. If any sub hasn’t earned your respect, why would you act like like a dominant?
The fourth mistake newbies subs often make is in setting limits. Some make too many or too few limits, and this will sometimes frustrate the dominant. Take some time to think about what truly fit to you… what you don’t under any circumstances want to experience at the moment, and make a limit. If a potential Dominant don’t agree to a certain limit, walk away. Your limits will change as you become experienced. What you won’t submit to the first year, you may like the second one.
The fifty mistake is that the Dominant is always right. The joke is there are two rules in SM:
Rule n°1: The SM Master is always right
Rule n°2: If the SM Master is wrong, refer to Rule n°1
Dominants are human so they are sometimes wrong. It isn’t a sin against the D/s gods to respectfully suggest to your SM Master or SM Mistress that he or she may be wrong… especially if it’s regarding a safety issue. Just because you are a sub doesn’t mean that you can accept anything. If you are the SM Master or the SM Mistress and that you make a mistake, don’t be afraid to admit it. It won’t make you any less “stupid”.
Last mistake is that many novices think that the SM Master or SM Mistress’s pleasure is the only thing that matters. Sure, as a sub or slave it is your job to please your SM Master or SM Mistress, but it should please you, also. We play these games to make everybody happy. When it happen that you do something to please your SM Master or SM Mistress that you don’t enjoy, if you find yourself doing this several times, you are probably with the wrong partner.
Cette jolie modèle que vous voyez sur la photo est une fille que j’ai rencontré sur FACEBOOK. Son profile m’a attiré et j’ai eu raison car, d’abord elle est sympathique et c’est très important pour moi, et en plus elle est belle. Normal elle pose pour différents photographes comme celui qui a pris cette photo, une des meilleures je trouve. Son Nom est POSSCAT GHISLAIN. Talentueux photographe, assez jeune en plus, Gislain est un talent à suivre.
Il est sur FACEBOOK also. Oui bon, c’est juste pour dire qu’en fait je ne connais pas le nom de la jeune fille car sur son profile facebook est marqué CON NASS DE VILS. Ahahah! Bon jeu de mots et nous les francophones seuls nous pouvons le comprendre. Enfin vous pouvez la trouver son son pseudonyme et si vous êtes bon photographe à PARIS et que vous êtes intéressé par elles comme modèle, n’hésitez pas à la contacter sur facebook (oui encore ce facebook machin). Sachez qu’elle est exclusive et très… Chère! 😉
This pretty model you see in the picture is a girl I met on FACEBOOK. Her profile attracted me and I was right because at first she is friendly and it’s very important for me, and in addition she is beautiful. Normal she poses for different photographers as the one who took this photo, one of the best I think. His Name (of the photographer) is POSCAT GHISLAIN. Talented photographer, young enough and more Gislain is a talent to follow.
He is on facebook also. Anyway just to say that actually I don’t know the name’ girl because the one one her facebook profile is CON NASSE DE VILS. Ahahah! Good game’s words but you have to speak french to understand. By the mine time you can find her on facebook under this name and if you are a good photograph in PARIS don’t hesitate to contact her. Don’t forget, she’s exclusive and …expensive! 😉
Among the multitude of erotic games that engages humanity since it has the opportunity, spanking has a special place, a special aura that gives it the indulgence of the less adventurous and recognition erotic explorers. Its gently wicked character, hardly painful, punishing just a tad naughty, transgressive tad arouse a form of affection and tenderness.
Spanking is somehow the little pampers naughty games, the one that nobody ever wants to criticize frankly and perhaps one of the few who always adorn an obvious touch of humor.
What is an erotic spanking?
This is a game between two partners which is for one to molest the posterior of the other and in which each is émoustillement and pleasure. Sexual arousal is found at different levels:
Submission and punishment: they are at the heart of BDSM games as they play on both the relationship of domination and the sadomasochistic practice.
The scenario: seeking to justify the reprimand, the couple and develop stories that explain this spanking. The servant who has not served, the student who has not learned well …
Physical contact: buttocks is an erogenous zone of choice, the one receiving the punishment relishes these supported caresses while the partner inflicting the correction comes into direct contact with this tender sexual area. Moreover, in the classic position of spanking that consists mostly to lengthen the corrected on the correction, it is possible to let go of the hand that does not strike to other anatomical regions …
The ambiguity: In childhood, spanking has no character is synonymous with fun and unpleasant punishment. In adulthood, a hand comes in contact with the buttocks instead becomes a form of erotic pleasure. Adult spanking plays the ambiguity.
Some accessories to punish posterior
Hand: classic accessory that has been proven, the hand is the best beginner’s tool because it allows better control of such intensity … Once flat, no more than to shoot more or less ardently on the back that has deserved.
Paddle: It can be wood, covered with leather, metal … The flat surface allows broad slaps on the buttocks. More painful than the hand, you have to use it with moderation, at least not more than what your partner can endure.
The Sensua whip whip LELOLe: For the breakdown rather than slap, whip exists in several versions depending on the power shots that we want to impose. The straps soft and very flexible leather will be solid rather than in wild caress punishment …
The whip: Similar to those used to move a horse, more rigid than the strips of the same whip if there is again different models, you have to curb his impulses and do not forget a tender human rump, tender and pink does not have the strength of a tourniquet race standard …
Some teachers ‘professional’ also recommend more traditional everyday objects such as hair brush, wooden spoon, fly swatter … That is to say anything that may hurt a little, but not too much!
What spanking zone?
Duff refers to a region of the body rather vague and it is important not to go too fiercely romp outside the playing area.
Anyway, there is no point spread, the erogenous zone is limited to what is called the seat area, that is to say, this soft and rounded part on which one sits … Below you reach the thighs and sciatic nerves to avoid mistreating and above, you may hit the tail bone and kidneys, which is painful, absolutely not erogenous and not recommended for health.
The rules of “Spanker”
The term “spanker” that signie “professor” in English is often found to refer to people who practice this discipline. Anglophones have moult websites and books on the subject and there are several communities of followers.
These experts, if you were to pass by, you would say that both partners spank spank and are in joy and good humor provided you follow certain rules.
As the practice of BDSM games including spanking is more or less a branch, it is necessary to make a contract between the two parties that defines the limits not to be exceeded and describes the desires of the one and the other depending on the context (spanking in public or private, with or without accessories …). And to leave the game and return to reality at any time, a “safe word” magic word that stops everything, must first be established.
Je ne suis pas ici pour vous vendre des livres mais pour vous informer sur certains livres SM que j’ai trouvé pas trop mal. Il est possible de les feuilleter sur amazone comme ça vous en aurez une idée. Certains commentaires sont aussi appréciables à lire donc …Faites votre choix, ou ne le faites pas 🙂
I’m not here to sell you books but to inform you about some SM books that I found not too bad. You can browse through on amazon like that you will have an idea. Some comments are also valuable to read so … Make your choice , or don’t do it 🙂
This list of lies is absolutely true!
especially when it talks about the mistresses who say -“they did it by choice” (though not always) that “their boyfriend don’t care” (I’ve not one that makes this easy), that “we never had sex with our customers” (I do it for some of my clients are handsome), “I always control my session” (that’s for novices) etc … Brief, read it because these lies are part of a reality Ugly but so true! Well…Not always 😉
Cette liste de mensonges vient d’une réalité absolue!
surtout quand elle parle des maitresses qui disent qu’elles ont fait ce métier par choix (quoique pas toujours), que leur copain s’en fou (moi j’en ai pas ça facilite la chose) , qu’on a jamais de sexe avec nos clients (moi je le fais car certains de mes clients sont beaux), je contrôle toujours pendant ma séance (ça c’est pour les novices) etc… Bref c’est à lire car ces mensonges relèvent d’une réalité toute crue mais tellement vraie! Enfin…Pas tout à fait 😉