TANTRIC SEX WHAT IS IT?
Translated with Google translate
My partner and I have heard of tantric sex, but we do not know exactly what it is. Can you tell us where to start?
Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means “woven together”. Followers of the Hindu and Buddhist meditation use the metaphor of sexual union to describe the union between the physical and the spiritual: the relationship between a man and a woman, between the human and the divine. The goal is to be one with God. Tantra is Western expression of this sacred form of sexuality: he taught to practice slow sex without orgasm. Couples I receive in my office and who engage in this form of sexual practice have discovered they can develop a great pleasure for the senses and learn to blend one into the other, an intense and loving feeling. The goal is to reach the light and not to win an Olympic medal to a carnal gymnastics competitions.
Here is a first exercise to start with tantric method. Fully clothed, stand face to face and look at the eyes of your partner. Support his gaze to create an intimate relationship. To reduce tension, some cheat leaving their eyes go between the eyes of the partner. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, then you look at his soul, he looks yours. Then, synchronize your breathing: breathe in unison, exhale simultaneously. Then, alternate your breaths: inhale when it expires, breathe on her inspiration, like taking possession of the other by his breath. Continue for ten minutes.
To switch to tantric sex, do the same process without clothing. Sit on his lap, facing him and circle the size of your legs. Practice sharing breath and start to kiss and caress you. In time, unite slowly while continuing kisses and caresses. Do not stop looking at you. And here’s where things get tough: by becoming more skilled, you will develop an ability to obtain extended orgasm. In men and women, it is a variant of the multiple orgasm. You live in the ecstasy of top without ever reaching the climax. You live all the sensations of a typical orgasm for several minutes or even hours, bypassing traditional orgasm. You will then know a very deep emotional and sexual union.
Refocus
The infernal schedule of modern life often prevents us to stop and focus intently on our partner. Tantric sex can improve our relationship and our sexual pleasure in many ways. First, amplified breathing and contact can help create a sense of intimacy. This sensation can only allow you to open your heart to the approximation, a greater love and forgiveness. Then the slow pace of tantric sex will take you to explore the sensuality of your body and your mind. Make love for an hour or more is like turning a hamburger in an epicurean feast. Both satisfy your hunger, but the feast will be more delicious, more enjoyable and satisfying. Finally, even if you do not like the idea of avoiding the climax, these practices can help you achieve sexual ecstasy and personal privacy that goes far beyond traditional orgasm.
Eve Maitresse 