TANTRISM TO THE ORGASM TANTRIC
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If Tantra is basically a spiritual power straight from India, today is a method to many Western couples to reach the 7th heaven. Every day seminars, workshops and training we are also proposed to achieve the tantric orgasm … But what Tantra? How to practice? What’s behind the term tantric orgasm? Decryption.
Tantra, a new method to achieve the seventh heaven? Far from it … If the past few years we hear of Tantra as a sexual practice, it is actually a life philosophy born there over 1500 years in India. Basically, we call a set of tantric texts and rituals which aims, through the exploration of the senses, to reach a total alertness.
Like yoga, tantra uses breathing and meditation as main tools of awakening. All the senses are stimulated in Tantric philosophy, including the senses called “carnal.” Hence the assimilation of a tantric sexual practice … It also speaks of tantric orgasm, a state of ecstasy which, according to those who have already tested (and approved!), Would be two three times stronger than a “classic” orgasm …
Is Tantra does it for me?
Tantra is mainly for couples: love and trust are two essential keys to achieve the tantric orgasm. Another prerequisite for playing the “game tantric” not consider sexual intercourse only as a means to achieve orgasm.
In the Tantric philosophy is the way that leads to orgasm is more important than the orgasm itself. Thus, we do not make love to achieve coitus but for all the fun and relaxation that comes from the union and fusion of the couple and the chemistry that emerges. Better indeed speak of discovery (carnal) our sense of sex. Conversely the quick sex, intercourse inspired tantric tends to push the point of orgasm to enjoy the fusion of the couple.
But then, what may suit couples Tantra? To all those who wish to “get” discover new sensations and love their lover (s) in a different way. However, test the tantric approach can be only two: if one partner is reluctant, it will hinder the tantric orgasm that requires a total relaxation of both partners.
Tantric Orgasm: what a difference a lambda orgasm?
Unlike “traditional” orgasm, orgasm tantric journey throughout the body and can be triggered without ejaculation there is no penetration. This is more of an explosion of the senses of the whole body as a localized orgasm in the pelvis. This is the principle of Tantrism: we no longer speak of sex but of discovering meaning in both. Thus, during sexual intercourse inspired Tantra, fellatio, cunnilingus and penetration are no longer essential to reach the seventh heaven.
But then what do we do? Mass and caress the body of his partner as a whole and not put all on the erogenous zones … The hands, legs, feet, back, shoulders and even the face: it is the set the body that must be stimulated, not just the breasts, buttocks or sex.
Remember then the G-spot and clitoris, they are not more important than the arm or neck … Indeed, the goal of Tantra (in the sexual sense) is the union and fusion of the couple. Making love in an approach inspired tantric back to listen to his body and that of his partner, while slowing the moment of orgasm. Each partner must go with pleasure, without seeking to cause orgasm while we even tend to forget. The idea is to just enjoy this merger with its partner, this slow, gradual rise of desire and pleasure. The energy of one is transmitted to the other and vice versa in a merger of the total torque, slow and without complex.
Unlike a lambda sex where one seeks to raise the fun as soon as possible by stimulating the erogenous zones, the watchword of Tantrism is: take your time! Remember when orgasm caused by a “coming and going” or clitoral stimulation … tantric orgasm vibrates the entire body, from head to toe and it is the whole body which is transcended. An orgasm can be achieved without there being penetration or ejaculation.
Tantra: how to slow the arrival of orgasm?
Tantric sex is the length: it can last two to three hours for experienced couples. While some couples prefer to avoid penetration to be sure to keep it as long as possible, you can reach the tantric orgasm while practicing it.
But when there is penetration, slowing the arrival of an orgasm requires real technique and a great habit. For this, we must succeed in mastering the contractions associated with the rise of pleasure, including musclant her perineum and adopting a relaxing breath. Or by making breaks at times. Breathing is a key element of the tantric orgasm: it must be slow, deep and help calm the contractions caused by the rise of excitement.
Generally, it fails to tantric orgasm at the first attempt: it takes time and practice to learn to control his pleasure, his excitement. Getting to meditation can be a solution to learn to lead her breath and calm his excitement. Workshops and introductory courses in Tantra can also be an interesting alternative for couples who want to try the experience of Tantric orgasm.