This page, about to cheat on your partner is fairly easy to read, fun and even interesting. But do not forget that this is written by the members of this site and not by psychologists. Therefore …. It is to relativize!
Cette page, à propos de tromper son conjoint est assez facile à lire, amusant et même intéressant. Mais n’oubliez pas que c’est écrit par les membres de ce site internet et non par des psychologues. Donc….Relativisez!
I’m having a bit of an affair with a piece of equipment at my gym. It’s the leg raise. This is a stationary machine, and you put our arms on two sides and suspend yourself in order to raise your legs for crunches.
That thing basically makes me come. I think it’s because of all the endorphins from exercise combined with blood flow from suspension and the stimulating of my lady bits from raising my legs in a rhythmic fashion. I’m not misusing the equipment, I swear. It’s literally the machine’s fault.
These kinds of orgasms are actually called “coregasms” and are legitimately caused by exercise. I’ve heard from many friends who have had exercise-induced orgasms. So I know I’m not crazy. It’s a real thing.
We think of orgasms as these elusive miracles, but I’m having them regularly at the gym. Dafaq is going on?
This got me thinking about orgasms (I mean, wouldn’t you?) and all the different kinds of orgasms there are out there.
Erin Basler-Francis, M.Ed., content and brand manager at the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, tells Elite Daily that every woman is physiologically capable of every kind of orgasm, but it’s basically different strokes for different folks.
Let’s start with “O” basics before we delve into her many faces.
An orgasm is as close as we mere humans will ever get to experience an internal volcanic eruption. We all know what it feels like.
It’s that building of sensual sensation that rapidly escalates and explodes inside of us. It’s not something we can ignore. It brings us down in one fell swoop. We are powerless before it.
According to Basler-Francis, an orgasm has four (very wonderful) phases: excitement, plateau, climax and recovery.
The orgasm itself is the result of muscle spasms during the climax phase, Basler-Francis tells ED. It is the “peak on the chart of arousal” followed by that characteristic orgasmic glow we bath in after the deed is done.
But an orgasm comes in all shapes and sizes, and through ways you may not have even considered.
According to Lorrae Bradbury, sexpert and founder of the sex-positive Slutty Girl Problems,
Someone getting a foot rub might feel pleasure, but they never think they could orgasm from it. Someone else may find that sensation to be intensely erotic, and can orgasm easily from it.
What allows us to orgasm is “the concentration of nerves, the nerve pathway, and the pleasurable feelings we attribute to the sensation.” Every element is equally responsible for how easily we are able to achieve orgasm.
Some women find it very difficult to orgasm. In fact, according to Women’s Day, a third of women report that they are unable to achieve orgasm from intercourse alone. And what’s worse is that most women experience only clitoral orgasms.
Bradbury tells Elite Daily that orgasm is more of an art:
To reach any kind of orgasm takes a lot of experimentation, patience, and practice to find what’s right for your body. Let go of any stress, relax, and allow yourself to feel pleasure … Don’t try to force it, just allow yourself to experience the full range of sensation. It’s about the journey, not the destination.
Clitoral orgasms
According to Ian Kerner, a nationally-recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex and couples therapy, all orgasms originate from the clitoris. Everything is connected back to it.
Kerner calls the clitoris “the powerhouse of the female orgasm.”
And Basler-Francis says that clitoral orgasms come from stimulating “both the visible part and its branches that run through the labia. The clitoris responds to friction, vibration and some pressure.”
Bradbury explains the reason your go-to orgasmic best friends are typically your G-spot and clit is because “some areas of our body are so densely packed with pleasurable nerve endings that it’s easy to orgasm from those spots.”
G-spot orgasms
Your G-spot is the walnut-sized, spongy area inside your vag and behind your clitoris. It connects to three different nerves within the pelvic region.
If someone were to put a finger inside you and hook it under your pubic bone, he or she could literally pull you by your G-spot. How’s that for visual stimulation?
Anyway, G-spot stimulation is the second most effective way to induce orgasm for most women.
How G-spot and clitoral orgasms differ and unite to leave you feeling ~amazeballs~:
According to Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure, the purpose of the clitoris is “pleasure with more nerve endings than the penis. The G-spot is a nerve-packed area made of erectile tissue.”
Bradbury says:
Clitoral orgasms are generally described as very focused, intense sensations throughout the clitoris and possibly the labia and genital area. On the other hand, G-spot orgasms are typically described as broader, deeper, longer, more intense, and throughout the pelvis and sometimes the entire body.
So needless to say, a blended G-spot and clitoral orgasm will leave you (for lack of a better word and because I’m f*cking gross) quivering.
“It’s achieved by simultaneously stimulating the clitoris and G-spot until orgasm. It takes some extra effort to get the coordination just right, but it’s well worth it,” Bradbury tells ED. We believe her.
Nipple orgasms
Now, I know I’m not alone when I say there is nothing like some nipple stimulation to really send me over the edge.
Bradbury informs us that, “Nipple stimulation engages the same pleasure-centers in your brain as clitoral stimulation.” So when you combine clitoral stimulation with nipple stimulation, you’re seriously firing up your body for an orgasmic effect.
But some women don’t even need the clitoral stimulation. It’s actually possible to achieve orgasm straight from nipple work, because the brain lights up in the same way.
Anal orgasms
Yes, that’s right. You can have an orgasm through your butt. So it might be time to reconsider bae’s call for butt stuff and think about the real ways that this could benefit you.
According to Basler-Francis:
[It] responds [to] pressure and a feeling of fullness (similar to the deep two-thirds of the vagina). There are also two sphincters at the base of the anus that expand and contract during orgasm, so things like anal beads simulate the muscle contractions of orgasm.
See, maybe it isn’t just bae’s wiener that gets to have all the fun during your exploration. You may just find that you very much enjoy a little harmless ass-play. Go forth and prosper. Just make sure he goes heavy on the lube and helps your anal muscles relax with a gentle touch.
*shudders but is still open to anal*
Cervical orgasms
You know what they say: “Size doesn’t matter.” Well, if you like your cervix messed around with when you’re doing the nasty, it sure as sh*t does matter.
Bradbury describes cervical orgasms as a deep and intense experience that can be felt throughout your entire body. Now, with that being said, too much peen smacking up against your cervix can be super painful and can even cause bleeding.
So, if you’re all about that gateway to your uterus getting the old stimulus, you’re going to need to be extra careful so you don’t f*ck your body up.
Pro-tip straight from Bradbury: “Practice kegel exercises regularly to strengthen your pelvic floor and enhance orgasm throughout your vagina and cervix.”
Urethral orgasms
We hear about the G-spot good and plenty. But what about getting some love for your other hole? No, not the butt, guys. We already talked about that. Holla!
I’m talking about the P-spot. And by P-Spot I literally do mean your pee hole. Don’t click out of this article. I am dead serious! This is a thing!
Basler-Francis warns that the urethra is sensitive and very prone to infection, so you need to be really f*cking careful. The pee hole “responds to light friction, light pressure, and you should always use something that can be sterilized (by boiling–so, stainless steel, borosilicate glass, and silicone) and surgical lube.”
Sounds a little like playing doctor, right? I could get into this.
Energy orgasms
Your brain can get you off, ladies and gents. All of the nerve-endings that bring you pleasure in all areas of your body are directly connected to the brain. It truly is the largest sexual muscle in the entire body. Take advantage of it.
These types of orgasms are a both a physical spiritual experience and can be achieved only when you’re at peace and in touch with both your body and mind.
According to Bradbury:
The concept is that you build erotic energy throughout your body until you experience an electric, tingling release accompanied by light-headed euphoria. To achieve it, lie down and relax completely, breathe deeply, and let go of any tension.
So, take some time to try to connect your libido to your brain. It really is possible to make fireworks happen with just the power of your mind.
And, most important: No matter what kind of orgasm you fancy, just remember that it’s about YOUR pleasure and what feels good to you — rather than trying to hit every single possible notch on the orgasmic pole.
As Basler-Francis puts it:
The fixation on separate types of orgasm is adding to the never-ending list of things one must do to have an excellent sex life and be a sexy bedroom beast. As long as people are satisfied with the orgasms they are having, there is really no reason to focus on the Pokémon strategy of cumming.
So, take from this knowledge what you will, and live your best life without shame. Cheers!
Three months ago, a host of a radio show interviewed me after reading a post I’d written for my blog. When the interview was over, the radio host made a brief, off-the-record comment that stayed with me.
(Disclaimer: I’m about to get into some pretty contentious stuff. If you can’t take the heat, head over to the X on the top right of your browser and click that bad boy now).
“Sheena,” the host began, “while reading your article, I pictured you looking like Amy Schumer. Then I found out what you looked like” — I guess by Googling me — “and it was a pleasant surprise.”
At first, her words seemed harmless; in fact, I was flattered. I thanked her and hung up the phone.
As I thought about it more, I began to feel uncomfortable. Wait, I thought. Was that a backhanded compliment to me or a straight-up insult for Amy Schumer? Or — worse — was it a dig at me?!
It wasn’t the first time someone had put down my worth. One of the many reasons things didn’t work out with my douchewad ex is that his sexism wore me out.
For example: When our relationship was still young, I showed him a song I’d written. At first, he was surprised by what I’d produced. And then he laughed. I was unnerved by how quickly he could change his mind.
“Oh, Sheena,” he said. “This is cute. You gonna go finish putting on makeup now?”
Cute? I didn’t want people to find my work cute; I wanted them to feel things because of it.
“I feel like you’re discrediting my work,” I fired back. “It isn’t shoddy, and I’m not stupid.”
But no matter what I said, I was just a pretty face to him.
I ended that relationship, and I’ve begun a new period of reflection. Lately, I’ve been thinking about one thing in particular: Why don’t we believe a woman can be smart andbeautiful? Why does she always have to be one or the other?
Think about it. We see Adriana Lima as beautiful and Lena Dunham as smart. Scarlett Johansson is a looker, but Mindy Kaling is a brainiac.
And good writers (like me, presumably, in the interviewer’s mind) are compared to Amy Schumer (and there’s nothing wrong with looking like Amy Schumer).
But God forbid any one of the women possess more than one praiseworthy quality. People’s judgments about women are confounding.
I’ll tell you why we don’t believe a woman can be both: because we let a woman’s beauty blind us. Beauty and brains are strong forces, but we seem concerned with just one.
We use beauty as an excuse to stop ourselves from getting to know a beautiful woman as deeply as we would get to know someone else. By failing to dig beneath the surface, we erroneously assume beautiful women are dumb.
People operate under the widely held misconception that pretty girls get everything they want — and that they use their looks to get what they want. They assume pretty girls are handed nice things on silver platters.
If I could count the number of times someone said some version of this to me, I’d be out of fingers and toes (side note: I’m already out of patience).
A jackass accused me of using my looks at a bar to get the bartender’s attention. It’s true that they may have helped a little, but that same jackass assumed I was pretty but simple-minded. He couldn’t have been more wrong.
I’d used my smarts, too. I was determined. I pushed my way through the crowds just like everyone else — while tolerating relentless elbowing and shoving — and made my way to the front.
But he tried to discredit my effort. I wasn’t “given” anything: I earned that f*cking beer the same way the jackass standing next to me did.
Let’s take Taylor Swift, an example easier to swallow than a spoonful of apple sauce. Public opinion has turned against her because she made the switch from country crooner to unapologetic pop princess (who just so happens to pose with a model posse).
Dayna Evans examines (poorly) on Gawker how society takes the idea of a beautiful woman and turns it on its head:
“Lena Dunham said her experience on stage with Swift’s model friends made her feel chubby and short, and you have to wonder if someone in Dunham’s position feels that way, preteens and young women watching all this immaculate perfection probably feel even worse.”
But Evans forgot something. People’s newfound hatred for Swift isn’t due to a fault in Ms. Swift’s character; it’s because of insecurities that parallel Dunham’s.
Evans’ argument has a foundation shakier than the San Andreas Fault. She makes claims with little evidence — the same way my ex and that radio host did.
Okay, so Swift likes to take pictures with her equally-as-beautiful #squad; it isn’t her fault that she’s thin, leggy and has the eyes of an angel. It’s genetics.
But the fact is that she’s hot, and her friends are hot, and we make generalizations about her because then we can categorize Swift more easily. And by processing her public image in such a way, we make women feel as though they have to pick and choose between being beautiful and making something worth reading, or seeing or listening to.
We can’t be both; if we were, we’d be unstoppable (if unsupported).
The more Swift appeals to her beauty and femininity, the less credible we find her music.
We listen to it with a grain of salt. We’ve become master fabricators, making up stories to belittle her and, most importantly, her art.
She got into this business for the music, and she’s learned to stay in it by continuing to make good music, coupled with shaking what her mama gave her.
The danger lies in the following: Not only do we bash on celebrities — leaving a bad example for the audiences who follow entertainment news — but we also hate on the “regular” woman. By body- or- mind-shaming, we trivialize a woman’s feelings and damage her self-esteem.
We have to stop classifying women as either brainy or beautiful. It’s because of our faulty compartmentalization that we lose clarity.
If we can learn to stop viewing beauty and brains as separate entities, we can learn to appreciate a woman as a whole — and see her for who she really is.
The most important point I want to make is a woman doesn’t want to be called only beautiful. On its own, the compliment is weak; it means little on its own. Just ask my slick-as-hell coworker.
To the men out there reading this: Keep that in mind the next time you try to pick a girl up in a bar by calling her “beautiful.” You prove your naïveté by seeing only her physical worth.
T-Swizzy works hard, people. So do I. Perhaps we’re threatened by a smart, beautiful woman because the world is her oyster, and that scares the absolute sh*t outta the rest of us.
But let’s not forget that pretty girls have problems and get their hearts broken, too. Let’s not undermine their accomplishments because of they way that they look.
The next time you meet a beautiful woman, I’d like you to judge her only after she’s opened her mouth. In the end, it’s only her words that count. The words of my ex are immortalized, but that doesn’t make them true.
Your move, ex-boyfriend.
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12 Signs You’re Horngry (Horny And Hungry) AF
There is a state of being more exasperating than any other. It takes over your mind and your body all at once.
It happens when you’re hungry and horny at the same time. You can barely tell which desire is stronger. You’re in full animal mode, but you don’t know which part of your body you should obey.
Do you want to jump a random stranger’s bones, or do you want to lick meat off chicken bones? Are your lady parts asking you to be a freak between the sheets, or are your tastebuds telling you to beast through an impeccable feast?
The problem is you aren’t hungry and horny just once in a while. It’s your permanent mode. It’s the default setting. If you came with an on/off switch, no one would be able to turn you off.
Being “horngry” perfectly captures your inability to feel satisfied. You always want more, and you always want the best.
The other night, my friend and I went out to dinner. While I talked about cute boys through a mouthful of food, she spent the evening trying to turn the R-rated conversation into a PG-13 one.
But her efforts were futile, since I am constantly thinking about food or men — or, rather, food AND men.
“Tell your vagina to calm down!” she snapped. I couldn’t help it. I can’t help it. I’m horngry AF.
What is “horngry,” you ask? Good question. “Horngry” is really just a funky word with a simple meaning: horngry = horny + hungry.
Horngry isn’t just a state of being; it’s a way of life.
There is no greater struggle than that of wanting to rip into a sub three times the size of your head and pounce on someone at the same time. I mean, really, is there anything harder than making the late-night choice between pizza and sex?
You don’t know what you want to put in your mouth faster: a Ring Ding or his ding-dong.
You unapologetically think of penises every time you eat a banana… or any fruit, for that matter. Your uncontrollable desire isn’t limited to phallic foods.
When sitting at your desk, you eat seductively. When you aren’t feeling the urge to get down and dirty, you walk down the street and bare your teeth like a bonafide bulldog so those creepy-ass mofos don’t get any weird ideas.
Your most vibrant sexual fantasy is your partner feeding you buffalo wings.
You want to get your wings all up in his dipping sauce (and you need that extra sauce on the side).
Both forms of edibles sound delicious.
“My man’s package looks fiiine today in those boxer briefs. But that brownie, though…”
You actually begin to find your delivery guy attractive.
Wait, did he start working out? Or maybe he got a new haircut? Nah. He’s still ugly as f*ck, and you’re just horngry AF.
You accidentally yell out the names of your favorite foods in bed.
Forget your ex; you’ve got that chocolate molten lava cake from last night’s three-course meal on the brain.
You refer to your man’s junk as your “pepperoni prince.”
His pee-pee didn’t ask for that horrid name — and neither did he. I feel sorry for it. And him.
You don’t know what needs filling first: your stomach or your vagina.
Is that your uterus or your stomach rumbling?
You pressure your hook-up buddy into experimenting with whipped cream.
The poor guy doesn’t even have a sweet tooth; he’s more of a chips-and-dip guy. You end up creeping him out with your freaky-as-hell style.
You want all kinds of sausages.
All of the sausages, from all around the world. Foreign and domestic. There’s nothing wrong with a nice ol’ juicy Italian sausage to go with your New American cuisine.
Oh, and there’s nothing wrong with a spicy Italian dude, either.
You can’t hide the frustration you feel when you’re doing just one of the two.
When you’re eating, you want to f*ck. When you’re f*cking, you want to eat.
A 12-inch pizza will always be 12 inches, but a dick might not always be.
It’s tough as hell being a single girl.
A typical night is this: You drink yourself into a blackout full of endless bad decisions and poor judgment. Since you haven’t gotten laid in a hot minute, you troll the bars in search of your next prospect, but the time and energy you invest in the hunt is utterly exhausting.
You have to play the unavoidable penis-guessing game, eyeing his man parts in a desperate attempt to figure out his size. What if he’s too small? What if he’s too big? You aren’t f*cking Goldilocks, and this isn’t a f*cking fairytale.
Sure, you could end up in a gross apartment that smells like socks, but a good, old-fashioned, too-drunk-to-remember one-night stand is the only thing that will satiate you in that moment.
Well, that and a personal pizza.
You have a go-to pizza spot; you’re so preDICKtable.
(See what I did there?)
You know all there really is to life is good food and good sex.
And you’ll be damned if you die hungry, horny, or both, because that would be the worst thing EVER.
The 20 Hottest Porn Stars To Follow On Instagram (NSFW)
hottest porn stars on instagram
When you stop to really think about it, being a porn star is the ultimate form of entrepreneurship. These ladies, and dudes, all start from the bottom and work their way up to become known. This requires years of experience and mastering of their craft, which any one of them will tell you, is not exactly easy.
The amount of bullsh*t, creepy dudes and filming they go through is no joke. So for those who actually hang in there and make it, we salute you. Make sure that you appreciate and enjoy some of the hardest working people in the game by following them on Instagram.
But with so many in the game, the market has gotten a bit saturated. Lucky for you, we have narrowed it down and cut through the fat to give you the very best. These are the 20 hottest porn stars to follow on Instagram:
Tired by the Permanent censorship on all social platforms, two small French created Voy’R, a mobile application that allows you to share photos and short texts so 100% anonymous and especially … without censorship.
The application is currently available on more conventional download platforms such as Google Play or the Apple Store since it was banned three times for “nudity reasons”. Their designers have therefore decided to propose without intermediaries, directly on their website.
As you can see, this application contrasts with the censorship that we see on current social networks and lets you anonymously, posting pictures of you in the outfit you want and in the position you prefer. As well tell you right away, the lens when you download this application, it is to see men and women naked while being sure of your anonymity and non-disclosure of your personal data. a kind of social network of erotic.
Clearly, if for you, Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat, it’s not sexy enough (sexual?), Towards the website of the fair application here. To give you an idea of the content of Voy’R it offers to watch the gallery below, even if it is assumed that you already know what to expect.
The profile of this user photo has been removed due to a style, charm and charisma unbearable (lol)
masturbation bonne pour la santé
No, that does not make deaf, no, this does not give cancer, masturbation is contrary to good health according to a study of highly specialized journal Science.
According to a survey of 10,000 people, masturbating daily is excellent on many levels.John Dusack, the researcher behind the study said:
MASTURBATION IS ALWAYS A NEGATIVE IMAGE IN SOCIETY AND YET WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO TALK. MEN MASTURBATE ON AVERAGE 2 TIMES MORE THAN WOMEN AND OLDER PEOPLE TEND TO FORGET TO MASTURBATE. NOW THIS IS A GREAT WAY TO DE-STRESS, TO SUSTAINABLY IMPROVE THEIR HEART RATE AND IS AN EXCELLENT SOURCE OF DOPAMINE, RESPONSIBLE FOR THE FEELING OF HAPPINESS.
IT CAN BE PRACTICED AT ALL TIMES AND IN ALL PLACES, IN THE WORDS SO THE SAYING GOES, THERE IS NO HARM IN DOING GOOD.
PRACTICED ALONE (MASTURBATION) OR IN A GROUP, IT IS ONE OF THE BEST SOURCES OF ENDORPHINS. THE PRACTICE GROUP ALSO CREATES LINKS SOCIAL AND WELCOMES THE OPENING OF MORE AND MORE CLUBS DEDICATED TO THIS PRACTICE. THE COUPLE IS MAKING A CEMENT FOR MANY PEOPLE. WOMEN SHOULD MASTURBATE MORE OFTEN, IT IS A GREAT WAY TO ENHANCE FERTILITY.
Masturbation is today a practice that is not spoken in the society and yet, people masturbating 5 times a week are happier than those who do not practice. A sexologist from Strasbourg University in 2013 said the following in his book “Touch You”:
BEYOND THE CLASSIC SEX, MASTURBATION CAN RECHARGE ENDING UP WITH YOURSELF. THIS APPROXIMATES A FORM OF DEEP MEDITATION THAT MIXES BUSINESS WITH PLEASURE. IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER FROM TIME TO TIME TO CALM OUR INNER ENERGY. ON THE PHONE, IN THE CAR (STOPPED OF COURSE) ON THE TRAIN, ON THE INTERNET, WITH MAGAZINES, BUT YOU TOUCH!
Statistics on those people who masturbated in the previous month:
AGE MEN WOMEN
14-15 42.9 24.1
16-17 58.0 25.5
18-19 61.6 26.0
20-24 62.8 43.7
25-29 68.6 51.7
30-39 66.4 38.6
40-49 60.1 38.5
50-59 55.7 28.3
60-69 42.3 21.5
70+ 27.9 11.5
Source: Herbenick, D et al. (2010). Sexual behavior in the United States: Results from a national probability sample of men aged 14-94. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7 (Suppl 5), 255-265).
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