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Honesty is crucial in any relationship. The relationship between a dominatrix and a submissive is a particular type of relationship and the rapport between the two parties is unique. However, the in order to build a healthy relationship between the dominatrix and submissive it must have honesty, clear and open communication, and respect…
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“What we’re seeking is an experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely physical plane will have resonances within our own innermost being and reality so that we actually feel the rapture of being alive.
Best known for his work in comparative mythology and comparative religion. His work is vast, covering many aspects of the human experience. His philosophy is often summarised by his famous phrase: Follow your bliss.”
Being centered is a Zen term that means a person is balanced, calm, healthy, peaceful, grounded, nourished. Some might see it as a relaxed state, one of calm, creative, full of the realization of being well-off, in communion with one’s self and one’s environment…How does a Master center a slave? He does it by creating, with his slave, a right relationship, that is, a pact of life in which each is free to be Him and Herself with a total openness, honesty, and clarity of purpose.
A Slave’s Mantra:
i dedicate my self to be always tuned to the infinite potential of becoming all that my Master wants of His slave. i want to become His wealth, His abundance, His freedom to be the True Master He has always been. i seek only His approval. i will seek only to bring Him happiness, to fulfill, His every desire, to anticipate His needs, physically, emotionally and mentally. To be His muse, His devil’s advocate, His sounding board, even His accomplice.
i seek to lose any precondition judgements that i have of what true servitude is and i will become molded only to my Master design. i will not lose that which had made me my Master choice to be His slave. But i will open all of myself to only Him and to His will and His desires. i will be my Master constant joy.
i will accept, no, i will welcome His pain as freely as i accept His pleasure. i will thank Him for both, with an open and loving slave heart. i am His treasured personal property to do with as He so commands. There are no limits except His, i will deny Him nothing that is in my power to offer Him.
His slave tears and blood will be the offering to my Master alter because I know His Dominance will demand at times pain from me. Pain that pleases Him. And tears and blood that feed that need. i will be His in every sense of the word slave. My slavery is not that of blind submission, i am not a pain slut but it is a part of Him and that is all that matters to me.
I will love Him beyond this mortal life, for i was created to belong to Him as His slave. And if it is possible, i will love Him beyond death. i am Him own.
It’s in the downtime that I know, without the shadow of a doubt, that what I’m doing is right, and strong, and beautiful. It’s not when I’m laying a hand on you, leaving you with marks, both mental and physical, as satisfying and arousing as those things are. It’s when I know that you’re so completely fulfilled, so absolutely happy and content, and safe, that you can be comfortable, being Owned, being Mine, that I am your absolute Master.