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Part Four of The MUSE Project comes a little early. We couldn’t sit on these much longer; Jordan Lehn has been a particular fave of ours for a minute now and it only made sense to provide another look at her. An even split between black and white images and popping color, it’s hard to pick a favorite.
Photos by MrGlass
Stockings, shoes, and lingerie all Jordan’s own.
QUESTIONNAIRE A REMPLIR AVANT LA SEANCE DE SM
Voici ce que doivent remplir normalement les soumis avant de se faire humilier par une maitresse qu’il ne connaissent pas. Ce papier est surtout rempli pour des séances de SM avec une MAITRESSE PROFESSIONNELLE.
CHECK LIST TO FILL UP BEFORE THE SM SESSION
Here’s what should be normally fill submitted before getting having a SM session with a mistress he does not know. This paper is mainly filled for SM sessions with a PROFESSIONAL MISTRESS but it can be filled by a sub and his/her SM Master or SM Mistress.
Scientific explanation about what is right or wrong in S&M
Voici mon premier prix de blogs, j’en suis heureuse et aujourd’hui, je sens l’inspiration d’un petit speach d’acceptation face à ce trophée en remerciant tous ceux que j’ai rencontré. Mais surtout à ce bloguer qui m’a nominée et qui est:
Alors merci pour la nomination, elle est très apprécié et je suis si heureuse que mon blog incite votre intérêt.
Je sais qu’il ya des règles à suivre en acceptant ce prix alors les voici
RÈGLES: Si vous êtes un bénéficiaire, choisissez 3 à 5 blogueuses qui écrivent sur le sexe (ou que les photos sexy parlent d’elles-même) que vous admirez et les récompenser en leur envoyant la photo d’attribution ci-dessus ainsi que les règles bien sur. Donnez aussi de brèves explications du pourquoi vous aimez ces blogueuses.
Je vais donc désigner:
Ce site parlent de clubs libertins principalement et est une mine d’or d’informations concernant la Hollande, la Belgique et la France. Adresses de clubs, soirées, hôtels, commentaires articles et témoignages sont toujours d’actualité. De plus elle écrit dans un style digne d’une journaliste.
Très beau blog où cette maitresse professionnelle présente ses photos et vidéos de toutes ses séances passées. On voit qu’elle fait ça depuis des années et qu’elle connait le métier.
Cette maitresse écrit vraiment bien. Elle pourrait écrire un livre. C’est comme un journal avec beaucoup de descriptions et de détails. A lire…
Voici encore un exemple de contrat que vous pouvez avoir. Tout exemple est bon à prendre. Encore une fois je ne suis pas là pour vendre mais pour informer!
Here is a sample contract that you may have. Every example is worth taking. Again I’m not here to sell but to know!
Common Mistakes Newbies Make
The first mistake I see from SM novices is thinking there is a right or wrong way to playing. Even if there are some safety rules that should be followed, the only people who make the rules are the ones who are involved in the relationship. If anyone else tells you that you are doing this wrong, tell them that ‘s not they business.
The second mistake is going too fast into things. I know that after years of suppressing this desire it’s very hard to take slowly when you finally find out you aren’t the only one that gets turned on by bondage. But too quickly dominate or submit the other without taking time to get to know some skills, and each other, is actually a lack of time… ans that is the bad kind. When you first get started, take the time to read books and get to know the person you will be playing with.
A thirty mistake the new subs make is submitting to everyone who calls themselves a dominant. Just because someone sticks “Master”, “Mistress” in their username doesn’t mean you have to call them “Sir” or “Madam” or submit to their requests. For the most part, a reputable and experienced Master or Mistress knows this and will not demand the respect. New dominants are sometimes guilty of this. If any sub hasn’t earned your respect, why would you act like like a dominant?
The fourth mistake newbies subs often make is in setting limits. Some make too many or too few limits, and this will sometimes frustrate the dominant. Take some time to think about what truly fit to you… what you don’t under any circumstances want to experience at the moment, and make a limit. If a potential Dominant don’t agree to a certain limit, walk away. Your limits will change as you become experienced. What you won’t submit to the first year, you may like the second one.
The fifty mistake is that the Dominant is always right. The joke is there are two rules in SM:
Rule n°1: The SM Master is always right
Rule n°2: If the SM Master is wrong, refer to Rule n°1
Dominants are human so they are sometimes wrong. It isn’t a sin against the D/s gods to respectfully suggest to your SM Master or SM Mistress that he or she may be wrong… especially if it’s regarding a safety issue. Just because you are a sub doesn’t mean that you can accept anything. If you are the SM Master or the SM Mistress and that you make a mistake, don’t be afraid to admit it. It won’t make you any less “stupid”.
Last mistake is that many novices think that the SM Master or SM Mistress’s pleasure is the only thing that matters. Sure, as a sub or slave it is your job to please your SM Master or SM Mistress, but it should please you, also. We play these games to make everybody happy. When it happen that you do something to please your SM Master or SM Mistress that you don’t enjoy, if you find yourself doing this several times, you are probably with the wrong partner.
Among the multitude of erotic games that engages humanity since it has the opportunity, spanking has a special place, a special aura that gives it the indulgence of the less adventurous and recognition erotic explorers. Its gently wicked character, hardly painful, punishing just a tad naughty, transgressive tad arouse a form of affection and tenderness.
Spanking is somehow the little pampers naughty games, the one that nobody ever wants to criticize frankly and perhaps one of the few who always adorn an obvious touch of humor.
What is an erotic spanking?
This is a game between two partners which is for one to molest the posterior of the other and in which each is émoustillement and pleasure. Sexual arousal is found at different levels:
Submission and punishment: they are at the heart of BDSM games as they play on both the relationship of domination and the sadomasochistic practice.
The scenario: seeking to justify the reprimand, the couple and develop stories that explain this spanking. The servant who has not served, the student who has not learned well …
Physical contact: buttocks is an erogenous zone of choice, the one receiving the punishment relishes these supported caresses while the partner inflicting the correction comes into direct contact with this tender sexual area. Moreover, in the classic position of spanking that consists mostly to lengthen the corrected on the correction, it is possible to let go of the hand that does not strike to other anatomical regions …
The ambiguity: In childhood, spanking has no character is synonymous with fun and unpleasant punishment. In adulthood, a hand comes in contact with the buttocks instead becomes a form of erotic pleasure. Adult spanking plays the ambiguity.
Some accessories to punish posterior
Hand: classic accessory that has been proven, the hand is the best beginner’s tool because it allows better control of such intensity … Once flat, no more than to shoot more or less ardently on the back that has deserved.
Paddle: It can be wood, covered with leather, metal … The flat surface allows broad slaps on the buttocks. More painful than the hand, you have to use it with moderation, at least not more than what your partner can endure.
The Sensua whip whip LELOLe: For the breakdown rather than slap, whip exists in several versions depending on the power shots that we want to impose. The straps soft and very flexible leather will be solid rather than in wild caress punishment …
The whip: Similar to those used to move a horse, more rigid than the strips of the same whip if there is again different models, you have to curb his impulses and do not forget a tender human rump, tender and pink does not have the strength of a tourniquet race standard …
Some teachers ‘professional’ also recommend more traditional everyday objects such as hair brush, wooden spoon, fly swatter … That is to say anything that may hurt a little, but not too much!
What spanking zone?
Duff refers to a region of the body rather vague and it is important not to go too fiercely romp outside the playing area.
Anyway, there is no point spread, the erogenous zone is limited to what is called the seat area, that is to say, this soft and rounded part on which one sits … Below you reach the thighs and sciatic nerves to avoid mistreating and above, you may hit the tail bone and kidneys, which is painful, absolutely not erogenous and not recommended for health.
The rules of “Spanker”
The term “spanker” that signie “professor” in English is often found to refer to people who practice this discipline. Anglophones have moult websites and books on the subject and there are several communities of followers.
These experts, if you were to pass by, you would say that both partners spank spank and are in joy and good humor provided you follow certain rules.
As the practice of BDSM games including spanking is more or less a branch, it is necessary to make a contract between the two parties that defines the limits not to be exceeded and describes the desires of the one and the other depending on the context (spanking in public or private, with or without accessories …). And to leave the game and return to reality at any time, a “safe word” magic word that stops everything, must first be established.
Je ne suis pas ici pour vous vendre des livres mais pour vous informer sur certains livres SM que j’ai trouvé pas trop mal. Il est possible de les feuilleter sur amazone comme ça vous en aurez une idée. Certains commentaires sont aussi appréciables à lire donc …Faites votre choix, ou ne le faites pas 🙂
I’m not here to sell you books but to inform you about some SM books that I found not too bad. You can browse through on amazon like that you will have an idea. Some comments are also valuable to read so … Make your choice , or don’t do it 🙂