Massage Tantric, Harmony within the Couple

MASSAGE TANTRIC, HARMONY WITHIN THE COUPLE 

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tantric massage, total harmony between body and mind

Tantric massage is often seen as a purely erotic approach inevitably leads to sex. However, this exchange is much deeper. Tantric massage is designed to awaken the sensuality and sensitivity between the two partners, rediscovering touch and by establishing a harmony between body and mind. Whether giving up, giving and receiving are three key aspects in a tantric massage.

Tantric Massage: What is Tantra?

Before going into the details of tantric massage should be briefly define what Tantra. This is a current inspired by Indian and Chinese ancient traditions. Tantra is a quest, a spiritual opening with sexual energy. The concept of sexuality is present, but in addition to relaxation, sensuality, to discover the sense of self and the other, etc.

Tantric massage is taught in tantra – esoteric sacred books. All parts of the body are considered in the same way. Thus, the genitals can be massaged without there being any ulterior motives on the part of the masseur or massaged. During tantric massage both partners are naked and use a hot oil to increase the benefits of their movements.

Note there are no established rules for the practice of tantric massage. Sensuality, harmony and responsiveness are the guidelines of this form of massage. Here are some tips that will help you practice what massage and make it effective.

First part of tantric massage

Above all, it is essential to create a soft, warm and soothing. Create an atmosphere of relaxation during a massage is always recommended, and more in the case of tantric massage, it goes without saying. The room must be well heated and very soft lighting. The candles are still the best when it comes time to create an intimate atmosphere. Incense and relaxing music will also bring warmth and relaxation to your massage. Tantric massage usually starts with the back but, again, there is no ready-made technique. However, it is better not to address the erogenous zones at once, to get comfortable your partner and yourself.

Start by massaging the sacrum your partner, then lying (e) on the belly. Slowly go up to his shoulders and neck with emphasis on the region of the spine. Your movements should be slow, deep and linked. Massage her neck and shoulders, arms and hands. Take care then the lower part of the body: legs, buttocks and feet. You can then begin to massage the inside of her thighs and groin area.

Then comes the time to open the chakras, the energy points found seven in number in the human body. In humans, it is the solar plexus it will linger, while in women, these energy points are stimulated by gentle massage of the lower abdomen (below the navel).

Second part of tantric massage

In women: the man can continue his tantric massage up towards the top and caressing the breasts, arms and hands of his partner. It will then dwell on the upper body, stroking his neck, scalp, face and ears, all with gentleness and tenderness. The sex of the partner can now be touched … but without erotic ideas! The purpose of massage is for now the relaxation and discovery of self and the other. Then back down to her legs and massage them gently in depth by making harmonious gestures. Step back now to the upper body and alternate massage and caresses.

In humans: the woman can continue her massage massaging the belly of his partner and his shoulders. The neck and throat can then be petted. Now go down to sex, testicles and anus of your partner. Touch these areas gently but even “directive” as Sir, no ulterior motives (for the moment). Tantric massage is intended as a discovery of sense and sensitivity of each and a moment of relaxation of body and mind. Once the genitals of your partner relaxed, down to her legs and massage them deeply, slowly. Step back now to the upper body and massage her chest, shoulders, arms and hands. Take care of her face then you masserez and caresserez softly. Remember to alternate between the two partners must be massaged and massaged.

All about erotic fantasies!

ALL ABOUT FANTASIES!

Just close your eyes and imagine yourself doing love with a star or with your neighbor (e) bearing. So what? Is it serious doctor? Should we speak of his fantasies to your partner? Take action?

1 – What is an erotic fantasy?

Fantasies It is a product of the imagination whose evocation arouses sexual emotion. It often comes down to the fantasy erotic scenes seen or imagined that one likes to board on his personal screen. But the fantasy can also be an idea, a feeling, a feeling. Fantasies are not just sex, they can exist in all areas that arouse the desires and pleasures of men.

2 – Where do the fantasies?

That’s because they are in direct contact with our psyche that sexual fantasies have such power of excitement. They include the fulfillment of unconscious desires more or less distorted by defensive psychic processes. The unconscious desire which is expressed as is often unrecognizable. To understand the significance of a fantasy psychoanalytic work of introspection is needed.

Some people think that erotic fantasies are created from scenes views or experienced in adolescence or later. This is probably partly true. In fact, if such an image or such experience becomes the content of a fantasy for someone, it’s because this representation expresses distorted way but still satisfying one of his unconscious desires.

3 – Everyone he has erotic fantasies?

It’s a bit like dreams. Everyone dreams, but dreams do not always come in the morning to the consciousness of the sleeper. The imagination of everyone working and therefore, every human being to fantasies. For some, the imagined scenes were not content depicting human genital sexuality, leaving them think they do not have sexual fantasies. Their desire is expressed through scenes where feelings and relationships are predominant.

4 – Should we tell her fantasies to your partner?

Ask the question already shows that this is not automatic … With his spouse, it is obvious to talk about his past, his family, but these fantasies … There is something else. Our fantasies are from intimate parts of our being, uncover is to expose representations that we do not always understand. While we may want to talk to be closer to each other. Wanting to hear his spouse know him better. But as the significance of the fantasies is not easily accessible, misunderstanding and discomfort may result. Except perhaps if you share the same fantasies. But nothing is certain! In this area no single answer; everyone feel limits and those of his partner.

5 – Should realize his sexual fantasies?

Again, there is no universal answer. Each according to his problem and what it is, will be a report of its own with that part of himself.

You have never thought of, and this seems impossible. In consideration of your modesty, your fantasies themselves, you do not see the point. Your sexuality satisfy you and if there are problems you think the solution lies elsewhere.
You are right. To fantasies have their place in your imagination only, and there is no reason to change this;
You will have thought, but you’re not sure (e) of the result. Does the excitement will be present? Is it fun for your partner? Do you hesitate? So before any talk in together. Your hesitation is probably due to the impressions you feel unable to name them. Trust your intuition. We can not play with his fantasies lightly;
You’ve already done and you are very happy (e). The question does not arise for you. But if you always ask here is that the realization of your fantasies did not bring that can be fun, but a pleasure mixed with uneasiness. Take the time to stop by.
6 – Are cultural fantasies?

The surveys indicate that our fantasies fantasies take images of our time and our civilization to form. But beyond this background now no study has focused on what motivates fantasies. Are game issues common to humanity?

7 – Should we worry about fantasize during sex on another partner than his?

There is never need to worry of a fantasy. But the misunderstanding is often a source of fear. The fantasy is the deformed realization of an unconscious desire. Because of this distortion is often impossible at first to grasp what it means to fantasy. In addition to the same fantasy the meaning may be different from one person to another. So if you dream of being in the arms of a (an) other at the time of lovemaking is no doubt that this is something for you, but not necessarily that your desire is to live your sexuality with that person !dropoff window The man or woman with whom you are in reality is still that or that you have chosen! If your fantasy disturbs you more than it excites you, meet a therapist to talk about.

8 – Some fantasies sharply away from what we believe to be our aspirations: rape fantasies, submission, violence … Why this discrepancy?

We do not know as well as we would like to believe. Freud, with the discovery of psychoanalysis has allowed us to glimpse a world we ignore: our unconscious, unknown place of psychic awareness. Through our fantasies, our repressed desires more or less distorted speak. They are rooted in the complexity of our childhood experiences and processes that led to the formation of our personality.

The monumental gap that can exist between our conscious desires and those behind our fantasies is not surprising, because if these desires were turned away is because they are incompatible with the way we design. If these fantasies appear is that the barrier erected so that they do not disturb the conscious life is not completely sealed but still sufficient for our unconscious desires are confined to the world of imagination.

9 – When fantasy becomes obsessive, they think about night and day, how to get rid? In the staging? Trying not to think about it?

In this case, the problem is not to be taken lightly. If it makes you suffer and disrupts your life, you have to take the means to explore this fantasy, understand its deeper meaning.

Realize it will sometimes take away from the strength, but the issue at stake will not be solved so far and is likely to invest in another disruptive event.

Then consult a psychothérateute-psychoanalyst. It should allow you to access what you unconsciously express through your fantasy and free yourself.

10 – Some more than others fantasies disturb: pedophile fantasies sadistic scenarios desires of physical mutilation, etc … Should we be afraid?

When his fantasies far removed from the standards, the individual sees a sign of abnormality. Am I normal? Do I not take action? He does not understand and is careful to mention it for fear of being rejected. In fact, these fantasies out standards do not differ in their constitution most innocuous fantasies. They express unconscious desires more or less distorted by defensive processes. There are probably not more likely to take action than other fantasies. But the situation is more dangerous. Consulting a professional is needed. With his help, the individual can access the deeper meaning of his fantasies. That is to say, connect to its history, its psychic conflicts.

Clubs libertines… A practical changing!

Clubs libertines: a practical changing!

With the libertines clubs, Swingers is changing … Time macho willing to exchange their wives against another, to spice up their sex life is over. This practice of couples in search of plural sexuality, rejuvenated. And women have taken the

Swinging! Yesterday, it was a term quite “macho”, referring to a practice reserved for couples where sir, eager to spice up her sex life, “traded” his wife against that of another. “Swingers, it’s a bit old school of debauchery, where men are dominant, is now  * Explanation. The women are released! If the man is still often initiated through the door of a club, it is not unusual to experience frees some female fantasies. It even happens that men to be masters of the game, somewhat overwhelmed by the overflowing desires of they wife.

Club libertine night a singular institution

Clubs libertines The notion of kinky swingers club or club, as they were not frequented, still a little fuzzy, suggesting either the merry mess, or the creepy. The swingers club is a night establishment, dedicated to a diverse sexuality. In this unique place is generally found a bar, a dance floor, an exhibition bar spaces to romp and private rooms. More and more institutions are equipped with private rooms for couples or illegitimate libertines who do not wish to be seen by others. Some facilities also include saunas or steam rooms.

If the club more urban version borrows the appearance of a night club in the country, the “libertines” meet in real complex with Jacuzzi, sauna, swimming pool,

Mostly men and couples

“Most of the time, these are couples who come into a . However, some institutions accept single men, according to a specific quota … and more expensive rates. Indeed, the entry price is higher for a single for one woman, for whom the clubs are very accessible. Rates can range from 60 to 80 € about for a couple, and climb to more than 100 € for a man solo, against only 20 € or less for a woman.

Strangely, if the population becomes more diverse, the number of libertines remains constant. For proof, according to the INSERM survey in 2006, which reflects the evolution of the sexuality of French, 3.6% of men and 1.7% of women visited at least once in a club. And only 1 in 3 women and 3 men out of 5 went there to act. Whereas in 1992, the figures were around 4% of men and 1% of women.

Another important phenomenon of swinging around: a closure of the constantly growing clubs. One consequence of the crisis and the emergence swingers sites on the Internet, with the organization of private parties. There are risks,” warns our expert. We do not always know who you’re dealing with. His advice: It is best to attend clubs and then organize parties if affinities.

Plural motivations libertines club

The reasons for attending a club are plural. This practice is experiencing a real change, the concept of swapping has become almost quaint. The clientele is younger. These newly famous clubs “libertine dance clubs” affect 25/35 years. Sexual liberation of women opens new fields of exploration.

These new libertines are not necessarily couple for a long time, and it’s not only the will to break a routine under the duvet motivates their choices. They may just want to make love in front of others. A woman can go there for the pleasure of dancing naked without necessarily having the desire to take action. It can also search for a bisexual partner for an experiment.

On the downside, however! Some “libertines” are more motivated by a desire for sexual consumption, a couple approach in search of complicity … They frequent the clubs in search of immediate gratification, to give sensations. This population has grown with porn, and out in the evening with Viagra … 30 years!. A more behavior inspired by the performance of X than in the real libertinism …

A special atmosphere

Paradoxically, the clubs are very secure. Where in night clubs, it has become common for a woman to be dredged heavily, it is quite different clubs libertines. Anything goes, in a climate of respect. You can mater, dancing, caress you, without wanting to explore all the positions of the Kamasutra, nor make you fondle. A simple gesture or a “no” is enough to dismiss the application. If you want to have sex only with your partner, same …

In case of non compliance with these codes, the lout or (e) may be excluded. “It’s very guarded, incidents are.

A libertine club is not a cruising, we go for fun, not for “consuming sex.” Best for a good night out is to be open to others. Do not always try to meet beautiful people … some are less attractive but so much more festive and . No event is like another. Some are more murky than others too … To avoid disappointment, the easiest way is to use the guides. Or someone knowledgeable. Nothing beats word of mouth …

Tantric Massage video

This video show more or less what is a tantric massage but know that when I give it to you, I massage you with my hands, my arms, my hairs, my breasts and my butt for you to have the max of sensuality. This massage make you go from relaxation to excitation and finish by an orgasm. Enjoy 😉

How I give you a Tantric Massage.

INITIATION STEP BY STEP

Aware of the difficulties some people may have to live from the outset a session of “Tantric Massage” as described in the relevant heading, I decided to offer sessions tailored to your level of evolution as well as  your limits.

Some people may wish to keep their underwear or even, do not be massaged fully in the first session. Others will not endure the body massage or body being hugged. The establishment of a climate of trust as well as the installation of a gradual and evolutionary process will prove necessary.

But you will progress at your own pace!

The freedom to be “self” is an initiatory journey … Sometimes you allow time to time. It has been so for ourselves.

We understand very well that he can be the same for you.

My wish is to accompany you on this journey at best, in any way put you in pain.

 

THE TANTRIC MASSAGE

This technique has its source in Tantra means “woven together” in Sanskrit.
Far from being complex and esoteric, it is a simple process, progressive, accessible to all who wish to find an easy and conscious way to bring the mind to sex, to honor sexual union as a bridge between the body and the soul.

It gives a new dimension to the experience of orgasm: here genital orgasm is not a goal in itself … it is only the beginning of a journey that explored and developed, leads to the ecstasy, a state of divine consciousness uniting us with the All. This is also the way to a “sacred sexuality” helping the body to be free of his armor, the heart to be open and trusting, and spirit to develop skills such as visualization, imagination and meditation. When this integration is done, you are ready for a new sensual and sexual experience, qualitatively richer in which physical pleasure becomes a delight the heart and an ecstasy of mind.

Fundamentally different from traditional massage techniques, here I will consider you in your entirety: body, heart, soul. All your energies will be stimulated, including your sexual energies known as Kundalini. Kundalini is an intense energy, coiled like a snake at the sacrum bone. This divine sexual energy, once awakened, leads the subject to the higher of the self-consciousness. The sessions take place in absolute nudity for both the recipient and the giver. The one bares literally and figuratively … down the masks! Each session is a prefocus to determine your motivations, your goals and your expectations.

For 60 minutes depending on the selected session, you will be massaged, loved, pampered, coddled, caressed with respect … every inch of your skin will be explored. Your Yoni or Lingam will hardly spared. All your senses will be awakened and titillated. You will be hugged and kissed tenderly (little kisses). I use their hands, forearms, fingers, body and

I will throughout this massage  encourage you to give you … to BE. Each session is unique because you are unique. Some people will laugh, cry or moan other. The fun will speak very easily for some, will be imperceptible to others. Our history, our joys and our sorrows are what we are at a particular moment. Some bodies locked too may react very surprisingly when breastplates collapse. Anyway, RELEASE MAKING! Give yourself the right to be who you are! Be aware that the quality of your experience depends largely on your ability to give up and to trust us. Together, these two ingredients you will live, I hope, a wonderful experience!

 

 

 

 

What is an erotic spanking?

Among the multitude of erotic games that engages humanity since it has the opportunity, spanking has a special place, a special aura that gives it the indulgence of the less adventurous and recognition erotic explorers. Its gently wicked character, hardly painful, punishing just a tad naughty, transgressive tad arouse a form of affection and tenderness.

Spanking is somehow the little pampers naughty games, the one that nobody ever wants to criticize frankly and perhaps one of the few who always adorn an obvious touch of humor.

What is an erotic spanking?
This is a game between two partners which is for one to molest the posterior of the other and in which each is émoustillement and pleasure. Sexual arousal is found at different levels:

Submission and punishment: they are at the heart of BDSM games as they play on both the relationship of domination and the sadomasochistic practice.
The scenario: seeking to justify the reprimand, the couple and develop stories that explain this spanking. The servant who has not served, the student who has not learned well …
Physical contact: buttocks is an erogenous zone of choice, the one receiving the punishment relishes these supported caresses while the partner inflicting the correction comes into direct contact with this tender sexual area. Moreover, in the classic position of spanking that consists mostly to lengthen the corrected on the correction, it is possible to let go of the hand that does not strike to other anatomical regions …
The ambiguity: In childhood, spanking has no character is synonymous with fun and unpleasant punishment. In adulthood, a hand comes in contact with the buttocks instead becomes a form of erotic pleasure. Adult spanking plays  the ambiguity.
Some accessories to punish posterior
Hand: classic accessory that has been proven, the hand is the best beginner’s tool because it allows better control of such intensity … Once flat, no more than to shoot more or less ardently on the back that has deserved.
Paddle: It can be wood, covered with leather, metal … The flat surface allows broad slaps on the buttocks. More painful than the hand, you have to use it with moderation, at least not more than what your partner can endure.
The Sensua whip whip LELOLe: For the breakdown rather than slap, whip exists in several versions depending on the power shots that we want to impose. The straps soft and very flexible leather will be solid rather than in wild caress punishment …
The whip: Similar to those used to move a horse, more rigid than the strips of the same whip if there is again different models, you have to curb his impulses and do not forget a tender human rump, tender and pink does not have the strength of a tourniquet race standard …
Some teachers ‘professional’ also recommend more traditional everyday objects such as hair brush, wooden spoon, fly swatter … That is to say anything that may hurt a little, but not too much!

What spanking zone?
Duff refers to a region of the body rather vague and it is important not to go too fiercely romp outside the playing area.

Anyway, there is no point spread, the erogenous zone is limited to what is called the seat area, that is to say, this soft and rounded part on which one sits … Below you reach the thighs and sciatic nerves to avoid mistreating and above, you may hit the tail bone and kidneys, which is painful, absolutely not erogenous and not recommended for health.

The rules of “Spanker”
The term “spanker” that signie “professor” in English is often found to refer to people who practice this discipline. Anglophones have moult websites and books on the subject and there are several communities of followers.

These experts, if you were to pass by, you would say that both partners spank spank and are in joy and good humor provided you follow certain rules.

As the practice of BDSM games including spanking is more or less a branch, it is necessary to make a contract between the two parties that defines the limits not to be exceeded and describes the desires of the one and the other depending on the context (spanking in public or private, with or without accessories …). And to leave the game and return to reality at any time, a “safe word” magic word that stops everything, must first be established.