I always wanted to know how to make a deep gorge. It was enough actually to watch Daily Motion and YouTube. It’s full of lessons and demonstrations to learn this, how shall I say … this feat.
I have several sub who want or I give the order to do it to a boy of 22 years that I know and that come just for that. Sure, it gets paid by my sub and that is also why he accept because he’s straight. I order the sub to ne on his knees, grabb his hairs and push his head so that he give a blow-job the young man. When he has put into his mouth and his saliva overflowing his lips, I push him until he’s down to his throat of the desired organ. Greedily, with large and saturated sounds, I hold him for 30 seconds snorkeling, normal time for a human being, and under my orders, then allow him to withdraw. But I do it again as the gus don’t come. And as the sucked prefer women, it may last a while ….
J’ai toujours voulu savoir comment faire une gorge profonde. Il suffisait en fait de regarder Daily Motion ou Youtube. Ça regorge de leçons et de démonstration pour apprendre cette, comment dirais-je… cette prouesse.
J’ai plusieurs soumis qui veulent ou que je force à en faire une à un garçon de 22 ans que je connais et qui se déplace rien que pour ça. Bien sûr, il se fait payer par mon soumis et c’est d’ailleurs pour ça qu’il accepte car à la base, il est hétéro. J’ordonne au soumis de se mettre à genoux, empoigne sa chevelure et pousse sa tête pour qu’il suce la bite du jeune premier. Quand il l’a bien mise en bouche et que sa salive déborde de ses lèvres, je la pousse jusqu’à ce qu’il ai jusque dans sa gorge l’organe tant désiré. Gouluement, avec des grands bruits sourds et saturés, je le maintient pendant 30 secondes en apnée, temps normal pour un être humain, et sous mon ordre, lui permets alors de se retirer. Mais je le fais recommencer tant que le gus n’a pas joui. Et comme le sucé ne soupire que pour les femmes, celà risque de durer un moment….
Here is the last shooting photo made with RENAUD CLOKEUR, talented photographer. His idea is to create a project about portraits of different mistresses. After, he will make exhibition and sale his wonderful work.
I have been proud of being one of his models. Good luck to you Renaud!!
TIPS FOR A GOOD MASSAGE EROTIC FOR YOUR MAN
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When the stimulator erotic massage becomes your libido!
Erotic massage, sensual massage: Ladies, offering an erotic massage to your partner you will overwhelm the least, you will stimulate his libido! Atmosphere, basic techniques, imagination and sensuality will be part of your program, to make this moment a delight to the senses of your beloved companion. Here are some suggestions massage, without forgetting that the most important is the tenderness and passion you put into it ….
Create an atmosphere to make your erotic massage more enjoyable
If the erotic massage helps relax the body and mind, however, it is essential that both partners are in advance relatively relaxed. The atmosphere is the second factor crucial to the success of your erotic massage. Before you embark on an erotic massage, so make sure that nothing will disturb you – no children, no phone. For erotic massage, choose a cozy room in which you and your partner will be able to expand and create a “sensual atmosphere”, with soothing lighting and soft music. Candles and incense accentuate the romantic and aphrodisiac effect. The room temperature should be adequate: you will be neither under the covers or dressed – or very little! Do not forget to plan for performing erotic massage massage oil to increase the feelings of your partner and allow your hands to glide easily. IF you want to massage his genitals, obtain an oil that may come into contact with mucous membranes and is not irritating. When erotic massage, be attentive to the various reactions of your partner (sounds, movements, etc.) to adapt your massage according to their preferences. His breathing is another indicator of its condition and will tell you a lot about his feelings. Dress side, put a nice string, but do not put anything on top; you will need to spice up your breasts massage …
Different erotic massage techniques
The effleurage is generally used at the beginning and the end of the massage and soothing action. It is simply placing your hands on your partner – tense and tight – and to touch her skin, applying light pressure. Mixing remains the most dynamic method erotic massage. Mainly used to massage the buttocks and hips, this technique involves lifting the flesh of one hand and then performing a twisting motion with each other. To perform this action, please press on both thumbs. Percussion is to tap a portion of your partner’s body with your hands. Percussion can take different forms for erotic massage: pat (fingertip) hatching (when the hands are in vertical position) or the beat (the fists are closed here). This technique is ideal for back, hips and thighs. The technique of the jaws of the tiger – which is thus nicknamed because of the position V obtained by removing the index finger and thumb – is mainly for the legs and torso. This method is used to go along the muscles by applying pressure very pleasant. It is particularly relaxing. Finally, with erotic massage, you can also adopt the kneading technique. It is to enter the muscle mass of the area being massaged and then tighten it between your fingers. Only the tips of the fingers and thumbs are in action. This method is ideal for massaging the fleshy areas and activate blood circulation.
Erotic massage, do not forget the basics!
Filled with constantly muscles and nerves, back deserves attention here generously for erotic massage. Start by touching the back of your fingertips partner then scrape it a few moments with your nails, gently. Then massage her shoulders down to the elbows. Continue putting you on all fours above him, to touch his skin with your breasts, down to the level of her buttocks. If you have not applied massage oil for erotic massage, you can stroke his back, buttocks and earlobes with your tongue and lips. Then knead her buttocks sensually – provided it is not touchy. When erotic massage, you masserez legs of your partner, start with the calves making sweeping motions, one hand after the other up. Note that the massage oil is highly recommended for this part, so do not pull hair. When masserez thighs rather make a scuffing and do not hesitate to conclude this step, use your lips (staying on course thighs as erotic massage is not yet complete). Do not neglect your feet; massaging, you will overwhelm your partner. It is mostly thumbs that will work, exerting pressure on the entire sole of the foot. You can also use your tongue and lips to caress her toes – provided it is not touchy. For the rest of erotic massage, to you to decide, you improvise …
MASSAGE TANTRIC, HARMONY WITHIN THE COUPLE
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tantric massage, total harmony between body and mind
Tantric massage is often seen as a purely erotic approach inevitably leads to sex. However, this exchange is much deeper. Tantric massage is designed to awaken the sensuality and sensitivity between the two partners, rediscovering touch and by establishing a harmony between body and mind. Whether giving up, giving and receiving are three key aspects in a tantric massage.
Tantric Massage: What is Tantra?
Before going into the details of tantric massage should be briefly define what Tantra. This is a current inspired by Indian and Chinese ancient traditions. Tantra is a quest, a spiritual opening with sexual energy. The concept of sexuality is present, but in addition to relaxation, sensuality, to discover the sense of self and the other, etc.
Tantric massage is taught in tantra – esoteric sacred books. All parts of the body are considered in the same way. Thus, the genitals can be massaged without there being any ulterior motives on the part of the masseur or massaged. During tantric massage both partners are naked and use a hot oil to increase the benefits of their movements.
Note there are no established rules for the practice of tantric massage. Sensuality, harmony and responsiveness are the guidelines of this form of massage. Here are some tips that will help you practice what massage and make it effective.
First part of tantric massage
Above all, it is essential to create a soft, warm and soothing. Create an atmosphere of relaxation during a massage is always recommended, and more in the case of tantric massage, it goes without saying. The room must be well heated and very soft lighting. The candles are still the best when it comes time to create an intimate atmosphere. Incense and relaxing music will also bring warmth and relaxation to your massage. Tantric massage usually starts with the back but, again, there is no ready-made technique. However, it is better not to address the erogenous zones at once, to get comfortable your partner and yourself.
Start by massaging the sacrum your partner, then lying (e) on the belly. Slowly go up to his shoulders and neck with emphasis on the region of the spine. Your movements should be slow, deep and linked. Massage her neck and shoulders, arms and hands. Take care then the lower part of the body: legs, buttocks and feet. You can then begin to massage the inside of her thighs and groin area.
Then comes the time to open the chakras, the energy points found seven in number in the human body. In humans, it is the solar plexus it will linger, while in women, these energy points are stimulated by gentle massage of the lower abdomen (below the navel).
Second part of tantric massage
In women: the man can continue his tantric massage up towards the top and caressing the breasts, arms and hands of his partner. It will then dwell on the upper body, stroking his neck, scalp, face and ears, all with gentleness and tenderness. The sex of the partner can now be touched … but without erotic ideas! The purpose of massage is for now the relaxation and discovery of self and the other. Then back down to her legs and massage them gently in depth by making harmonious gestures. Step back now to the upper body and alternate massage and caresses.
In humans: the woman can continue her massage massaging the belly of his partner and his shoulders. The neck and throat can then be petted. Now go down to sex, testicles and anus of your partner. Touch these areas gently but even “directive” as Sir, no ulterior motives (for the moment). Tantric massage is intended as a discovery of sense and sensitivity of each and a moment of relaxation of body and mind. Once the genitals of your partner relaxed, down to her legs and massage them deeply, slowly. Step back now to the upper body and massage her chest, shoulders, arms and hands. Take care of her face then you masserez and caresserez softly. Remember to alternate between the two partners must be massaged and massaged.
TANTRIC SEX WHAT IS IT?
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My partner and I have heard of tantric sex, but we do not know exactly what it is. Can you tell us where to start?
Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means “woven together”. Followers of the Hindu and Buddhist meditation use the metaphor of sexual union to describe the union between the physical and the spiritual: the relationship between a man and a woman, between the human and the divine. The goal is to be one with God. Tantra is Western expression of this sacred form of sexuality: he taught to practice slow sex without orgasm. Couples I receive in my office and who engage in this form of sexual practice have discovered they can develop a great pleasure for the senses and learn to blend one into the other, an intense and loving feeling. The goal is to reach the light and not to win an Olympic medal to a carnal gymnastics competitions.
Here is a first exercise to start with tantric method. Fully clothed, stand face to face and look at the eyes of your partner. Support his gaze to create an intimate relationship. To reduce tension, some cheat leaving their eyes go between the eyes of the partner. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, then you look at his soul, he looks yours. Then, synchronize your breathing: breathe in unison, exhale simultaneously. Then, alternate your breaths: inhale when it expires, breathe on her inspiration, like taking possession of the other by his breath. Continue for ten minutes.
To switch to tantric sex, do the same process without clothing. Sit on his lap, facing him and circle the size of your legs. Practice sharing breath and start to kiss and caress you. In time, unite slowly while continuing kisses and caresses. Do not stop looking at you. And here’s where things get tough: by becoming more skilled, you will develop an ability to obtain extended orgasm. In men and women, it is a variant of the multiple orgasm. You live in the ecstasy of top without ever reaching the climax. You live all the sensations of a typical orgasm for several minutes or even hours, bypassing traditional orgasm. You will then know a very deep emotional and sexual union.
The infernal schedule of modern life often prevents us to stop and focus intently on our partner. Tantric sex can improve our relationship and our sexual pleasure in many ways. First, amplified breathing and contact can help create a sense of intimacy. This sensation can only allow you to open your heart to the approximation, a greater love and forgiveness. Then the slow pace of tantric sex will take you to explore the sensuality of your body and your mind. Make love for an hour or more is like turning a hamburger in an epicurean feast. Both satisfy your hunger, but the feast will be more delicious, more enjoyable and satisfying. Finally, even if you do not like the idea of avoiding the climax, these practices can help you achieve sexual ecstasy and personal privacy that goes far beyond traditional orgasm.
IS PORNOGRAPHY REALLY A DRUG?
Of course! In excessive doses, pornography provokes the addict addiction similar to that caused by other drugs.
The amateur pornography search foremost a strong feeling, a kind of adrenaline rush. Gold, adrenaline in the brain called dopamine. Dopamine is a molecule secreted by the hypothalamus, which causes the feeling of well-being. It is also useful to remember that as sexual images have, in essence, an extraordinary exciting potential. They are therefore particularly well suited to secrete a strong dose of dopamine.
We can come to be quickly depending on the chemical response, and look well to constantly renew his pleasure. The addict is more addicted to its own hormones that at the drug itself. It is the same for sexual arousal. Man stimulated regularly by explicit representations can indeed develop a dependency to its “shoots” testosterone. And look, consequently, to reproduce as much as possible the conditions in which he felt them.
But overuse is addictive to this adrenaline. The addict is then led to overexposure, in order to continue to regain the excitement of the early days. It will therefore “increase” doses, or “improve” the product, which, for pornography, resulting in the search for sexual representations ever more extreme and violent.
The consumer then enters a vicious circle because he feels the need to consume pornography, it consumes; because he consumes, he feels the need. And this, pornocrates have perfectly understood long! Frustration is for them the guarantee consumers acquired their business.
I’ll add that even making the particularly dangerous pornography, is that no one expects it generates dependency. We all know the harm caused by smoking or excessive alcohol consumption. But the prevention message about the dangers of pornography is itself almost nonexistent. There are no associations for the pornodépendants (the issue is present, but at the margin, the DASA meetings – Dependents Anonymous emotional and sexual), no information campaigns to the public. And for good reason; in our society, pornography has a playful dimension, coupled with a certain idea of freedom. Try this: say around you, from people that do not know you intimately, you are against pornography. You probably essuyerez some skepticism, will be cataloged reactionary, perhaps even suspect is it that your sex life is not satisfactory. While everyone will abound in your sense if you speak from the dead by comas ethyl, or risk désociabilisation caused by excessive cannabis use. Very difficult in these circumstances to issue a prevention message about the dangers of pornography.
One can certainly say that 100 addicts pornography, there are many 99 who have not seen it happen addiction. These have overharvest more by lack of information, as by deliberate exceed the red line. Those are the victims of permissiveness of our societies.
However, the same logic, “forewarned is forearmed!” Depending having become aware of the evil that caused him pornography is the master of his salvation, and therefore responsible for his eventual relapse. It does not feel guilty, but to know bouncing on his own mistakes to advance. Flogging is unhealthy, but criticism is never!
SM, a practice “trendy”
SM practices are now very “fashion” is the new chic perversion. Women’s magazines are promoting it by telling their readers the shops where they can obtain the best price a little dress in black latex thigh in stiletto heels or a good old martinet families. “A good little spanking: this is perhaps what we need” recently headlined the Cosmopolitan magazine.
SM, contracted form of sadomasochism, says a priori the idea of a relationship between opposing characters or even contrary. Krafft-Ebing it is who first coined the term in the late 19th century, referring to the writings of two great writers, Sade and Sacher-Masoch.
sado_maso SM contains a spectacular dimension that requires an appropriate costume, a disguise which sets the precise status and role of each of the protagonists. Modern SM includes several types of practices: floggings with crops, whips or other swifts; inserting objects in vaginal orifices, anal or oral; links that are intended to coerce and to immobilize the subject; rituals of humiliation and domination in which the subject is required to take all kinds of positions.
Finally, in a more extreme form, it inflicts on the subject of temporary or permanent body modifications such as piercing, scarification or tattooing. The ritual takes place in a “dungeon”.
The reversal of roles eroticized
In its “soft” form, the SM is a fun reversal, controlled and temporary positions that each occupies in society. This is how men of power have often been big fans of SM liabilities, in which they can at will occupy the position of the dominated. Women fulfill the role of dominatrix as a corollary of their lower social position. This is because women have achieved positions of social power they can now also occupy the position of the subject in the rituals of the SM. In this perspective, the SM is a sort of safety valve where you can play the other.
A lot of noise … for few followers
But if there is much talk now of SM in the media and the fashion aired paraphernalia domineering, practitioners are few. There are two clubs in Paris that offer dungeons followers of these games as well as several dozen prostitutes who offer “therapy” SM for gold.
Eroticized pain or ability to control it?
We find in this type of relationship, the idea that violence and the resulting pain would be a source of intense pleasure for the person who administers much as for the one who receives. It is therefore an eroticized violence and pain. Sadomasochism also includes domination, mental anguish and humiliation. Freud is the one who most emphasized the connection between the opposite dimensions of sadomasochism and their presence within the same individual at the same time and in terms of the relationship between two people where one can embody one either of these lines.
Stoller has proposed another interpretation to the eroticism of pain. According to him, this is not the pain itself, but the ability to effectively control pain, which is the source of masochistic pleasure. People who feel this type of use would have experienced intense physical pain during their childhood and learned to control them: the pleasure comes from the possibility of control.
Perversion psychopathology of everyone
Originally, sadomasochism was considered reprehensible and pathological sexual perversion. Freud and psychoanalysts have expanded the meaning of the concept by considering that the couple “activity – passivity” is opposing and inseparable fundamental characteristics of sexual life in general.
Towards a dialectic of master and slave
Challenging prejudices underlying the clinical psychopathology, the philosopher Gilles Deleuze considered sadism and masochism, as have been described in the works of Sade and Sacher-Masoch, are not the “couple of opposites “psychoanalysts. According to Deleuze, sadism would refer to the omnipotence of the master who willfully ignores the presence of the object to which it requires all of its desire to almost impersonally. Sadism and would be a form of absolute power over the other up to its negation.
Masochism would report to a different logic, that of the contract. The subject would be looking for a dominant (or more often a dominatrix) he would need to train and educate through a contract with him. Masochism would be the expression of a contractual relationship between two free beings whose contract between them sets the limits of what is lawful to do and not do. In this contract, the masochist causes the dominator to bring along to comply with its terms and waived. The dialectic of master and slave, dear to Hegel, finds its full expression here and sadism masochism would not be as extreme and sexualized forms of social relations.
A fully granted and contractual relationship
SM fashionable now is part of a consensual relationship between two free beings. And that is the signature of the contract between the two partners which sets the course of the ritual and its limits, making it an acceptable practice in an era that places legal and negotiated dimension of social and interpersonal relationships at the top of its values