It’s rude to look and a waste of time. Why make your spouse feel any less about themselves in any way? If you are committed to someone and you appreciate who they are and what they do and your lives together, is looking at someone else to think about them later or fantasize about them in any way a good thing for your relationship? Sure there are attractive people, but it is exhausting to have to always be thinking that the person you’re with is finding everyone around you attractive. It only makes, especially women, feel bad about themselves because images of women are EVERYWHERE….we are all being brainwashed with sexual images of women and how can a women not feel insecure with the men in their life going around and consuming all these images and using them to fantasize with? Is this what life is about? How about spending the time to work on a project, or visit a family member, or volunteer…
Women and men are bombarded with unreal images of women everyday and everywhere. Men feel entitled to look and consume all these images and it is doing no good for women. We are constantly feeling insecure about ourselves because all of this objectivity is getting out of control. All the movies have at least one topless woman, women are used to sell everything…. Why do women have to just accept that men will look?….women want to look too…and recent studies have shown that women ARE JUST AS VISUAL and respond EQUALLY to sexual images as men, so those arguments are no longer valid. It is a matter of respect and women are no longer being respected.
Eve Maitresse 