SM, a practice “trendy”

SM, a practice “trendy”

SM practices are now very “fashion” is the new chic perversion. Women’s magazines are promoting it by telling their readers the shops where they can obtain the best price a little dress in black latex thigh in stiletto heels or a good old martinet families. “A good little spanking: this is perhaps what we need” recently headlined the Cosmopolitan magazine.

SM, contracted form of sadomasochism, says a priori the idea of a relationship between opposing characters or even contrary. Krafft-Ebing it is who first coined the term in the late 19th century, referring to the writings of two great writers, Sade and Sacher-Masoch.

Inventory festivities

sado_maso SM contains a spectacular dimension that requires an appropriate costume, a disguise which sets the precise status and role of each of the protagonists. Modern SM includes several types of practices: floggings with crops, whips or other swifts; inserting objects in vaginal orifices, anal or oral; links that are intended to coerce and to immobilize the subject; rituals of humiliation and domination in which the subject is required to take all kinds of positions.

Finally, in a more extreme form, it inflicts on the subject of temporary or permanent body modifications such as piercing, scarification or tattooing. The ritual takes place in a “dungeon”.

The reversal of roles eroticized

In its “soft” form, the SM is a fun reversal, controlled and temporary positions that each occupies in society. This is how men of power have often been big fans of SM liabilities, in which they can at will occupy the position of the dominated. Women fulfill the role of dominatrix as a corollary of their lower social position. This is because women have achieved positions of social power they can now also occupy the position of the subject in the rituals of the SM. In this perspective, the SM is a sort of safety valve where you can play the other.

A lot of noise … for few followers

But if there is much talk now of SM in the media and the fashion aired paraphernalia domineering, practitioners are few. There are two clubs in Paris that offer dungeons followers of these games as well as several dozen prostitutes who offer “therapy” SM for gold.

Eroticized pain or ability to control it?

We find in this type of relationship, the idea that violence and the resulting pain would be a source of intense pleasure for the person who administers much as for the one who receives. It is therefore an eroticized violence and pain. Sadomasochism also includes domination, mental anguish and humiliation. Freud is the one who most emphasized the connection between the opposite dimensions of sadomasochism and their presence within the same individual at the same time and in terms of the relationship between two people where one can embody one either of these lines.

Stoller has proposed another interpretation to the eroticism of pain. According to him, this is not the pain itself, but the ability to effectively control pain, which is the source of masochistic pleasure. People who feel this type of use would have experienced intense physical pain during their childhood and learned to control them: the pleasure comes from the possibility of control.

Perversion psychopathology of everyone

Originally, sadomasochism was considered reprehensible and pathological sexual perversion. Freud and psychoanalysts have expanded the meaning of the concept by considering that the couple “activity – passivity” is opposing and inseparable fundamental characteristics of sexual life in general.

Towards a dialectic of master and slave

Challenging prejudices underlying the clinical psychopathology, the philosopher Gilles Deleuze considered sadism and masochism, as have been described in the works of Sade and Sacher-Masoch, are not the “couple of opposites “psychoanalysts. According to Deleuze, sadism would refer to the omnipotence of the master who willfully ignores the presence of the object to which it requires all of its desire to almost impersonally. Sadism and would be a form of absolute power over the other up to its negation.

Masochism would report to a different logic, that of the contract. The subject would be looking for a dominant (or more often a dominatrix) he would need to train and educate through a contract with him. Masochism would be the expression of a contractual relationship between two free beings whose contract between them sets the limits of what is lawful to do and not do. In this contract, the masochist causes the dominator to bring along to comply with its terms and waived. The dialectic of master and slave, dear to Hegel, finds its full expression here and sadism masochism would not be as extreme and sexualized forms of social relations.

A fully granted and contractual relationship

SM fashionable now is part of a consensual relationship between two free beings. And that is the signature of the contract between the two partners which sets the course of the ritual and its limits, making it an acceptable practice in an era that places legal and negotiated dimension of social and interpersonal relationships at the top of its values

Fetishism today

FETISHISM TODAY

Often associated with high heels and other corsets, fetishism is also experiencing significant changes. Internet and rampant consumerism have changed the concept of sexual fetishism. The point with Emilie Notéris, which explores the new contours in a meaningful test.

Fetishism, for most of us is often linked to a material, such as leather or latex … It can also be on certain body parts, such as breasts, buttocks and feet … , of course. It is surrounded by a sexual nature when that “worship” is accompanied by sexual arousal. Our time causes profound changes, including in this area.

You said fetishism?

Long before he fixed on our feet, or the laces of our corsets, fetishism has had many travels.

fetish-Born today in 1756 in the writings of Charles de Brosses, it is defined by its religious character. It erects against people who engage in worship of the gods “fetish” and place them idolatrous objects. Attributed primarily to African ethnic groups, fetishism was extended to non-Western populations.

This concept then takes an economic revolution under the leadership of Karl Marx that alludes to the character “fetish” of the goods.

As for its sexual connotations, it belongs to Freud that the fetish is an improper substitute for sex object. According to him, the fetish supplants the goal, that is to say, the enjoyment!

The fetishization of women

The fetishization of women is obvious, “it is the subject of a transaction whose ultimate objective would be its commodification” analysis Emilie Notéris during his extensive investigation that explores many benefits. Fetishization heavily exploited in the literature. It may be noted, for example, courtly literature which lists the “emblems of the body” feminine, become a genre in itself. In photography, film and illustration, this movement is widely developed.

We will retain more specifically, because it is probably the most common, fetishism of the foot. According to Freud, it would be the first thing a child would see before seeking to meet the genitals of his mother. But in reality, fetishism applies to all parts of the body, non-erogenous, such as hair and derivatives, such as pieces of lingerie, the most famous is the corset, or shoes and much more stilettos. A fetish out of the ghetto of perversion and high today in true art of glamor, especially Dina Von Teese.

Internet and dildos change the concept of fetishism

The Internet revolution has also revolutionized the concept of fetishism. “There has to be a reversal, Internet dematerialized the notion of fetishism” said Emilie Notéris. The report has become more complex, with dematerialization.

Before fetishism was on an object or body part; Now it is self fetish through avatars, which become the support fantasies … and circulating virtually. Again this is not the enjoyment that is sought, but a “self objetisation” virtual version. This is very new! The arts took hold of this mutation, and the women themselves more readily a fetish on a virtual mode.

Pub and fetishization

“Advertising plays more on fetish codes” says Amélie Notéris. Namely: the pub appeals to notions of desire, and diverts, seeking the springs of sexuality, where it is not necessary. A car, a razor, surimi are providers of orgasm. Transvestites to not be discovered, specific codes are built to a market system. “Sexual life has become a market value on exploited in advertising, marketing and media, changing relationships between men, in favor of objects …”. As such, sexual fetishism is in line with a “commodification” of human relationships, with the risk of exhaustion of fantasy …

A certain danger that invite us to position ourselves resilient to the consumer society. Perhaps recreating an aura around objects of his desire, and reconnecting with the codes of neo-fetish invented!

Fetish Portrait

FETISH PORTRAIT

How to define fetish?

We can talk about fetishism when sexual practices are associated with the look or whether tangible or details are attached to objects. Fetishisms are numerous and assume forms that differ in the world according to culture. In France, the fetishistic practices are derived from the SM practices found in specific areas which are now broadcast in a larger population.

What are the most common forms of fetishism?

All cultures have their own form of fetishism. In Brazil, for example, is the ankle that will host all the fantasies. Thus, according to history and culture, erotic investments will be different and will head to various body parts. To illustrate this, we may mention Playboy magazine who changes his photos in the country in which it is broadcast.

What are its origins (childhood trauma …)? Can we speak of perversion?

Without going into the field of psychology, I do not think we can talk about the trauma of fetishism. Men were always taught to build their sexuality in a more or less standardized manner, whether to love the buttocks or breasts.
There has always been a kind of prompt moral perversion league to qualify any practice does not lead to reproduction. More humanity emerges, the more it diversifies its practices while it tries to exercise control over it.
Today, sexual practices tend toward a massive diversification, as people turn they in greater numbers to fetishism. In some circles, people aestheticize eroticism, focus on details, and fetishism is thus associated with outfits, to appear. With the desecration of sexuality, it became a game of territory more ordinary. Fetish practices are more in vogue, resulting once again social control although there is clearly towards more tolerance.

The fetishistic imagery seems to have democratised (in advertisements, movies, etc.). How to explain such a trend?

Advertising and the creation typically do but follow social practices that develop. There have always been movies featuring fetish practices, the difference is that today they are more accessible to the general public.
The wave of porno chic visible in advertising often claims of fetishism and addresses of the various social environments while previously reserved for so-called upper social classes. The development of sex shops also contributed to this democratization. Today, everything very quickly, and thus noticed an extreme diversity of forms of eroticism whose fetish is part.

The Latex Fetishism

The latex fetishism

Elastic Parisian nights, show fetish Rihanna or Lady Gaga, SM games and vinyl in the heart of the trilogy “50 Shades of Grey” … The latex is very trendy! Octavia Delvaux, author of erotic novels, decodes the trend.

Just say the word latex for that immediately arises the vision of Cat Woman, Batman version of Tim Burton. More recently, Britney Spears and Lady Gaga head took over. At the biker version one, there is the challenge of the other SM. “Latex is the material that I prefer” seem sing in chorus Stars. The phenomenon also in full swing at parties “fetish” cheeky and cheerful frequented by followers. In existence for 13 years in Paris under the leadership of Francis Dedobbeler, Elastic Nights are always full. Most recently, he won the popular novel of the X sector, with “50 shades of Grey” by EL James and our favorite, the “Sex in the Kitchen” Octavia Delvaux.

The latex gloves to full suits

Fetish latex skirts, pants, nursing gloves, stockings, corsets … latex folds in many uses. But it is especially the combinations that win the prize, and even more “full” or “catsuits,” which mold the body completely simply with openings for the eyes, nose or mouth.

There are also conventional in the art, such as nursing attire for women and for men in military uniform. Color-coded side, black is popular, followed closely by red.

England, Germany and Belgium, where the codes are less conventional, there are new costume changes, right out of the universe manga … According to our expert Octavia Delvaux: “The costumes change with the imagination of enthusiasts this matter. ”

Latex fetish trend

Latex is often associated with fetishism. “It is the exhibition concepts and sensations (touch, hearing, smell), which take precedence … The latex can beautify the body, develop, sublimate forms,” says Octavia Delvaux. As evidenced by the current music scene with Rihanna, Britney Spears or Lady Gaga, who mastered the erotic codes. “It’s fetish, because desire is directed toward the thing as much scope as the body / partner who wears” advanced our expert.

This is a dress that is referred to fetishism fetishism adhesion. An attraction that could go back to childhood when the baby is reassured by the contact of rubber: nipples, draw sheet, or layers …

Latex: SM trend

SM notes often associated with latex “When the lady dressed in latex, it is a way to enter a character Combination” second skin “give the domineering some aplomb and allow him to. display a tenfold sex appeal … to the satisfaction of fetish submitted “said Octavia.
Moreover, the latex fetishism setting the compression idea, mold, compresses or locks. There are also full suits with dolls masks (which completely erases the identity of the subject and relegated to the rank of “object”).

And the ultimate: the bed or bed vacuum cleaner. These latex sheets in which the person will lie, as in a sleeping bag. An air intake system will immobilize inside fully, with the only possibility of a breathing hole at the mouth, or a tube. Watch Out! This is a risky practice in the measurement, or the “second skin” sheets can cut off circulation, especially in the neck … A therefore be handled with extreme caution.

One note, fetishism and SM do not necessarily go together. The followers fetish evenings are not predominantly earned by the SM universe and the games dominant / submissive. In this case, it is the concept of exhibition motivates participants.

Erotic qualities of latex

The strong erotic stimulation caused by the first latex comes from the vision of molding, and sublimated … The curves thus revealed or compressed by the latex, are highly exciting. Touch and rubber characteristic odor also come into play … The singular friction noises when two bodies dressed in latex are particularly erogenous meet for fetishists sometimes push the game to make love in a bed with sheets latex.
As for the one who wears the garment, it is the feeling prevails. How to live the wearing latex varies from one individual to another: some will appreciate especially smell, very special softness, warmth it brings; others gargariseront the idea of being “imprisoned as” and so prefer the full suits … “Or the feeling of being mauled by his garment,” says Octavia Delvaux. Perspiring (the latex is waterproof, it does not let the skin breathe) can also add a strong note to this punitive exciting experience.

Moreover, the dimension of the “ceremony” can multiply sexual tension. “Latex is a material that requires maintenance. Otherwise, it can deteriorate very quickly,” assures our expert. It must be washed with clean water after each use, but that’s not all … The attractive appearance exerted latex comes from its shiny, which calls for special care. “Apply polish on location and talc on the back, is part of the ceremonial” decodes Octavia. Constraints that do not fail to meet the SM fetish. This is often subjected to domestic’s responsibility to carefully maintain the holding of their master or mistress.

Angelina Jolie as a SM mistress

REVELATION party Brussels

EN

For those who want to go to Brussels tomorrow and do not know what to do, here’s a great evening dress fetish latex or SM. Good fun!

FR

Pour tous ceux qui veulent sortir à Bruxelles demain et qui ne savent pas quoi faire, voici une super soirée fétichiste pour s’habiller en latex ou en SM. Bon amusement!

Miguel Boutik SM and Fetish Photographer

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Latex ans Fetish from two talented photographer

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Peter Diablow and Peter W. Czernich are the two talented photographer. Do you like they pictures? I do. Well…The models are already something + two gifted guys behind the caméra? here is what you see above. I like TATTOO on women even if I don’t have any. I’m too sensitive. I hate pain. I prefer kisses 🙂 Watch the model with red hairs. Her name is LOUVA. Such a beauty… I like women who have a strong personality.

Calendrier Pirelli Latex 2015

Superbe! A voir.

Superb! Must see!

Pirelli calendrier

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2aj5ii_tout-le-calendrier-pirelli-2015-en-video_auto#from=embediframe

FR

Je n’ai pas pu mettre un titre au deuxième lien.c’est une video du calendrier de Pirelli où vous voyez le making off.

EN

I couldn’t put the title at the second link but just to know it’s a clip of the Pirelli agenda, a making off.

Dominatrix for Lovely Latex

Brigitte More for Lovely Latex

Alex Pérez photographer

EN

I like the style and the physic of the Brigitte. What a strong personality! She’s masculine and I like it. She’s a Dominatrix and I feel she’s pretty powerful. I wouldn’t be her slave! lol

Lovely Latex is a ligne of Latex clothes. Look at the website above if you are curious. Maybe you will like it.

FR

J’aime le style et la plastique de Brigitte. Quelle forte personnalité! Elle est masculine et ça me plait assez bien. C’est une dominatrice et je la sens assez puissante. Je ne voudrais pas être son esclave! lol

Lovely latex est une ligne de vêtements en latex. Regardez le site Web ci-dessus si vous êtes curieux. Peut-être que vous aimerez.