masturbation good for health

masturbation bonne pour la santé

No, that does not make deaf, no, this does not give cancer, masturbation is contrary to good health according to a study of highly specialized journal Science.

According to a survey of 10,000 people, masturbating daily is excellent on many levels.John Dusack, the researcher behind the study said:

MASTURBATION IS ALWAYS A NEGATIVE IMAGE IN SOCIETY AND YET WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO TALK. MEN MASTURBATE ON AVERAGE 2 TIMES MORE THAN WOMEN AND OLDER PEOPLE TEND TO FORGET TO MASTURBATE. NOW THIS IS A GREAT WAY TO DE-STRESS, TO SUSTAINABLY IMPROVE THEIR HEART RATE AND IS AN EXCELLENT SOURCE OF DOPAMINE, RESPONSIBLE FOR THE FEELING OF HAPPINESS.
IT CAN BE PRACTICED AT ALL TIMES AND IN ALL PLACES, IN THE WORDS SO THE SAYING GOES, THERE IS NO HARM IN DOING GOOD.
PRACTICED ALONE (MASTURBATION) OR IN A GROUP, IT IS ONE OF THE BEST SOURCES OF ENDORPHINS. THE PRACTICE GROUP ALSO CREATES LINKS SOCIAL AND WELCOMES THE OPENING OF MORE AND MORE CLUBS DEDICATED TO THIS PRACTICE. THE COUPLE IS MAKING A CEMENT FOR MANY PEOPLE. WOMEN SHOULD MASTURBATE MORE OFTEN, IT IS A GREAT WAY TO ENHANCE FERTILITY.

Masturbation is today a practice that is not spoken in the society and yet, people masturbating 5 times a week are happier than those who do not practice. A sexologist from Strasbourg University in 2013 said the following in his book “Touch You”:

BEYOND THE CLASSIC SEX, MASTURBATION CAN RECHARGE ENDING UP WITH YOURSELF. THIS APPROXIMATES A FORM OF DEEP MEDITATION THAT MIXES BUSINESS WITH PLEASURE. IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER FROM TIME TO TIME TO CALM OUR INNER ENERGY. ON THE PHONE, IN THE CAR (STOPPED OF COURSE) ON THE TRAIN, ON THE INTERNET, WITH MAGAZINES, BUT YOU TOUCH!

Statistics on those people who masturbated in the previous month:
AGE MEN WOMEN
14-15 42.9 24.1
16-17 58.0 25.5
18-19 61.6 26.0
20-24 62.8 43.7
25-29 68.6 51.7
30-39 66.4 38.6
40-49 60.1 38.5
50-59 55.7 28.3
60-69 42.3 21.5
70+ 27.9 11.5

Source: Herbenick, D et al. (2010). Sexual behavior in the United States: Results from a national probability sample of men aged 14-94. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7 (Suppl 5), 255-265).

Où Commence Le BDSM?

50 nuances de grey

DEEP THROAT

I always wanted to know how to make a deep gorge. It was enough actually to watch Daily Motion and YouTube. It’s full of lessons and demonstrations to learn this, how shall I say … this feat.

I have several sub who want or I give the order  to do it to a boy of 22 years that I know and that come just for that. Sure, it gets paid by my sub and that is also why he accept because  he’s straight. I order the sub to ne on his knees, grabb his hairs and push his head so that he give a blow-job the young man. When he has put into his mouth and his saliva overflowing  his lips, I push him until he’s down to his throat of the desired organ. Greedily, with large  and saturated sounds, I hold him for 30 seconds snorkeling, normal time for a human being, and under my orders, then allow him to withdraw. But I do it again as the gus don’t come. And as the sucked prefer women, it may last a while ….

J’ai toujours voulu savoir comment faire une gorge profonde. Il suffisait en fait de regarder Daily Motion ou Youtube. Ça regorge de leçons et de démonstration pour apprendre cette, comment dirais-je… cette prouesse.

J’ai plusieurs soumis qui veulent ou que je force à en faire une à un garçon de 22 ans que je connais et qui se déplace rien que pour ça. Bien sûr, il se fait payer par mon soumis et c’est d’ailleurs pour ça qu’il accepte car à la base, il est hétéro. J’ordonne au soumis de se mettre à genoux, empoigne sa chevelure et pousse sa tête pour qu’il suce la bite du jeune premier.  Quand il l’a bien mise en bouche et que sa salive déborde de ses lèvres,  je la pousse jusqu’à ce qu’il ai jusque dans sa  gorge l’organe tant désiré. Gouluement, avec des grands bruits sourds et saturés, je le maintient pendant 30 secondes en apnée,  temps normal pour un être humain, et sous mon ordre, lui permets alors de se retirer. Mais je le fais recommencer tant que le gus n’a pas joui. Et comme le sucé ne soupire que pour les femmes, celà risque de durer un moment….

The best worst book I have ever read.

 

If you don’t understand it’s mean that either you are uncultivated or stupid….or both 🙂

You are especially attracted to the smart people?

Article from Pausecafein

You are especially attracted to the smart people? You are sapiosexuel!

To please, better make intellectual gonflette!
Gentlemen, let go immediately and put your dumbbells to play Scrabble! Same for you ladies! It was the ultimate proof that nothing is sexier than a smart person. Are you sapiosexuel too? Read on and find out!

On vous souhaite de tout connaître, sauf la dernière étape évidemment !

article de  Pausecafein

Si le sexe, c’est la vie et que la vie, c’est le changement, alors le sexe, c’est aussi le changement. On ne fait pas les mêmes choses dans sa vie à 16 ans qu’à 60 ans, c’est normal. Et pour le sexe, c’est exactement pareil. Bien qu’on soit tous différents, on passe (presque) tous par certaines étapes. Onanisme, frénésie sexuelle, recherche de stabilité, parentalité, tromperies… Les voici, détaillées exprès pour vous !

We wish you to know everything, except the last step of course!
If sex, that’s life and that life is change, then sex is also changing. We do not do the same things in life to 16 years to 60 years, this is normal. And for sex, it’s exactly the same. Even though we are all different, we go (almost) all through certain steps. Masturbation, sexual frenzy, search for stability, parenting, deceptions … Here they are, purposely detailed for you!

Tips for a good Massage Erotic for you Man

TIPS FOR A GOOD MASSAGE EROTIC FOR YOUR MAN

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When the stimulator erotic massage becomes your libido!

Erotic massage, sensual massage: Ladies, offering an erotic massage to your partner you will overwhelm the least, you will stimulate his libido! Atmosphere, basic techniques, imagination and sensuality will be part of your program, to make this moment a delight to the senses of your beloved companion. Here are some suggestions massage, without forgetting that the most important is the tenderness and passion you put into it ….

Create an atmosphere to make your erotic massage more enjoyable
If the erotic massage helps relax the body and mind, however, it is essential that both partners are in advance relatively relaxed. The atmosphere is the second factor crucial to the success of your erotic massage. Before you embark on an erotic massage, so make sure that nothing will disturb you – no children, no phone. For erotic massage, choose a cozy room in which you and your partner will be able to expand and create a “sensual atmosphere”, with soothing lighting and soft music. Candles and incense accentuate the romantic and aphrodisiac effect. The room temperature should be adequate: you will be neither under the covers or dressed – or very little! Do not forget to plan for performing erotic massage massage oil to increase the feelings of your partner and allow your hands to glide easily. IF you want to massage his genitals, obtain an oil that may come into contact with mucous membranes and is not irritating. When erotic massage, be attentive to the various reactions of your partner (sounds, movements, etc.) to adapt your massage according to their preferences. His breathing is another indicator of its condition and will tell you a lot about his feelings. Dress side, put a nice string, but do not put anything on top; you will need to spice up your breasts massage …

Different erotic massage techniques
The effleurage is generally used at the beginning and the end of the massage and soothing action. It is simply placing your hands on your partner – tense and tight – and to touch her skin, applying light pressure. Mixing remains the most dynamic method erotic massage. Mainly used to massage the buttocks and hips, this technique involves lifting the flesh of one hand and then performing a twisting motion with each other. To perform this action, please press on both thumbs. Percussion is to tap a portion of your partner’s body with your hands. Percussion can take different forms for erotic massage: pat (fingertip) hatching (when the hands are in vertical position) or the beat (the fists are closed here). This technique is ideal for back, hips and thighs. The technique of the jaws of the tiger – which is thus nicknamed because of the position V obtained by removing the index finger and thumb – is mainly for the legs and torso. This method is used to go along the muscles by applying pressure very pleasant. It is particularly relaxing. Finally, with erotic massage, you can also adopt the kneading technique. It is to enter the muscle mass of the area being massaged and then tighten it between your fingers. Only the tips of the fingers and thumbs are in action. This method is ideal for massaging the fleshy areas and activate blood circulation.

Erotic massage, do not forget the basics!
Filled with constantly muscles and nerves, back deserves attention here generously for erotic massage. Start by touching the back of your fingertips partner then scrape it a few moments with your nails, gently. Then massage her shoulders down to the elbows. Continue putting you on all fours above him, to touch his skin with your breasts, down to the level of her buttocks. If you have not applied massage oil for erotic massage, you can stroke his back, buttocks and earlobes with your tongue and lips. Then knead her buttocks sensually – provided it is not touchy. When erotic massage, you masserez legs of your partner, start with the calves making sweeping motions, one hand after the other up. Note that the massage oil is highly recommended for this part, so do not pull hair. When masserez thighs rather make a scuffing and do not hesitate to conclude this step, use your lips (staying on course thighs as erotic massage is not yet complete). Do not neglect your feet; massaging, you will overwhelm your partner. It is mostly thumbs that will work, exerting pressure on the entire sole of the foot. You can also use your tongue and lips to caress her toes – provided it is not touchy. For the rest of erotic massage, to you to decide, you improvise …

Massage Tantric, Harmony within the Couple

MASSAGE TANTRIC, HARMONY WITHIN THE COUPLE 

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tantric massage, total harmony between body and mind

Tantric massage is often seen as a purely erotic approach inevitably leads to sex. However, this exchange is much deeper. Tantric massage is designed to awaken the sensuality and sensitivity between the two partners, rediscovering touch and by establishing a harmony between body and mind. Whether giving up, giving and receiving are three key aspects in a tantric massage.

Tantric Massage: What is Tantra?

Before going into the details of tantric massage should be briefly define what Tantra. This is a current inspired by Indian and Chinese ancient traditions. Tantra is a quest, a spiritual opening with sexual energy. The concept of sexuality is present, but in addition to relaxation, sensuality, to discover the sense of self and the other, etc.

Tantric massage is taught in tantra – esoteric sacred books. All parts of the body are considered in the same way. Thus, the genitals can be massaged without there being any ulterior motives on the part of the masseur or massaged. During tantric massage both partners are naked and use a hot oil to increase the benefits of their movements.

Note there are no established rules for the practice of tantric massage. Sensuality, harmony and responsiveness are the guidelines of this form of massage. Here are some tips that will help you practice what massage and make it effective.

First part of tantric massage

Above all, it is essential to create a soft, warm and soothing. Create an atmosphere of relaxation during a massage is always recommended, and more in the case of tantric massage, it goes without saying. The room must be well heated and very soft lighting. The candles are still the best when it comes time to create an intimate atmosphere. Incense and relaxing music will also bring warmth and relaxation to your massage. Tantric massage usually starts with the back but, again, there is no ready-made technique. However, it is better not to address the erogenous zones at once, to get comfortable your partner and yourself.

Start by massaging the sacrum your partner, then lying (e) on the belly. Slowly go up to his shoulders and neck with emphasis on the region of the spine. Your movements should be slow, deep and linked. Massage her neck and shoulders, arms and hands. Take care then the lower part of the body: legs, buttocks and feet. You can then begin to massage the inside of her thighs and groin area.

Then comes the time to open the chakras, the energy points found seven in number in the human body. In humans, it is the solar plexus it will linger, while in women, these energy points are stimulated by gentle massage of the lower abdomen (below the navel).

Second part of tantric massage

In women: the man can continue his tantric massage up towards the top and caressing the breasts, arms and hands of his partner. It will then dwell on the upper body, stroking his neck, scalp, face and ears, all with gentleness and tenderness. The sex of the partner can now be touched … but without erotic ideas! The purpose of massage is for now the relaxation and discovery of self and the other. Then back down to her legs and massage them gently in depth by making harmonious gestures. Step back now to the upper body and alternate massage and caresses.

In humans: the woman can continue her massage massaging the belly of his partner and his shoulders. The neck and throat can then be petted. Now go down to sex, testicles and anus of your partner. Touch these areas gently but even “directive” as Sir, no ulterior motives (for the moment). Tantric massage is intended as a discovery of sense and sensitivity of each and a moment of relaxation of body and mind. Once the genitals of your partner relaxed, down to her legs and massage them deeply, slowly. Step back now to the upper body and massage her chest, shoulders, arms and hands. Take care of her face then you masserez and caresserez softly. Remember to alternate between the two partners must be massaged and massaged.

Tantric Sex What is it?

TANTRIC SEX WHAT IS IT?

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My partner and I have heard of tantric sex, but we do not know exactly what it is. Can you tell us where to start?
Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means “woven together”. Followers of the Hindu and Buddhist meditation use the metaphor of sexual union to describe the union between the physical and the spiritual: the relationship between a man and a woman, between the human and the divine. The goal is to be one with God. Tantra is Western expression of this sacred form of sexuality: he taught to practice slow sex without orgasm. Couples I receive in my office and who engage in this form of sexual practice have discovered they can develop a great pleasure for the senses and learn to blend one into the other, an intense and loving feeling. The goal is to reach the light and not to win an Olympic medal to a carnal gymnastics competitions.

Here is a first exercise to start with tantric method. Fully clothed, stand face to face and look at the eyes of your partner. Support his gaze to create an intimate relationship. To reduce tension, some cheat leaving their eyes go between the eyes of the partner. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, then you look at his soul, he looks yours. Then, synchronize your breathing: breathe in unison, exhale simultaneously. Then, alternate your breaths: inhale when it expires, breathe on her inspiration, like taking possession of the other by his breath. Continue for ten minutes.

To switch to tantric sex, do the same process without clothing. Sit on his lap, facing him and circle the size of your legs. Practice sharing breath and start to kiss and caress you. In time, unite slowly while continuing kisses and caresses. Do not stop looking at you. And here’s where things get tough: by becoming more skilled, you will develop an ability to obtain extended orgasm. In men and women, it is a variant of the multiple orgasm. You live in the ecstasy of top without ever reaching the climax. You live all the sensations of a typical orgasm for several minutes or even hours, bypassing traditional orgasm. You will then know a very deep emotional and sexual union.

Refocus
The infernal schedule of modern life often prevents us to stop and focus intently on our partner. Tantric sex can improve our relationship and our sexual pleasure in many ways. First, amplified breathing and contact can help create a sense of intimacy. This sensation can only allow you to open your heart to the approximation, a greater love and forgiveness. Then the slow pace of tantric sex will take you to explore the sensuality of your body and your mind. Make love for an hour or more is like turning a hamburger in an epicurean feast. Both satisfy your hunger, but the feast will be more delicious, more enjoyable and satisfying. Finally, even if you do not like the idea of avoiding the climax, these practices can help you achieve sexual ecstasy and personal privacy that goes far beyond traditional orgasm.

Tantrism to the Orgasm Tantric

TANTRISM TO THE ORGASM TANTRIC
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Tantra…Tantric orgasm
If Tantra is basically a spiritual power straight from India, today is a method to many Western couples to reach the 7th heaven. Every day seminars, workshops and training we are also proposed to achieve the tantric orgasm … But what Tantra? How to practice? What’s behind the term tantric orgasm? Decryption.
Tantra, a new method to achieve the seventh heaven? Far from it … If the past few years we hear of Tantra as a sexual practice, it is actually a life philosophy born there over 1500 years in India. Basically, we call a set of tantric texts and rituals which aims, through the exploration of the senses, to reach a total alertness.

Like yoga, tantra uses breathing and meditation as main tools of awakening. All the senses are stimulated in Tantric philosophy, including the senses called “carnal.” Hence the assimilation of a tantric sexual practice … It also speaks of tantric orgasm, a state of ecstasy which, according to those who have already tested (and approved!), Would be two three times stronger than a “classic” orgasm …

Is Tantra does it for me?

Tantra is mainly for couples: love and trust are two essential keys to achieve the tantric orgasm. Another prerequisite for playing the “game tantric” not consider sexual intercourse only as a means to achieve orgasm.

In the Tantric philosophy is the way that leads to orgasm is more important than the orgasm itself. Thus, we do not make love to achieve coitus but for all the fun and relaxation that comes from the union and fusion of the couple and the chemistry that emerges. Better indeed speak of discovery (carnal) our sense of sex. Conversely the quick sex, intercourse inspired tantric tends to push the point of orgasm to enjoy the fusion of the couple.

But then, what may suit couples Tantra? To all those who wish to “get” discover new sensations and love their lover (s) in a different way. However, test the tantric approach can be only two: if one partner is reluctant, it will hinder the tantric orgasm that requires a total relaxation of both partners.

Tantric Orgasm: what a difference a lambda orgasm?

Unlike “traditional” orgasm, orgasm tantric journey throughout the body and can be triggered without ejaculation there is no penetration. This is more of an explosion of the senses of the whole body as a localized orgasm in the pelvis. This is the principle of Tantrism: we no longer speak of sex but of discovering meaning in both. Thus, during sexual intercourse inspired Tantra, fellatio, cunnilingus and penetration are no longer essential to reach the seventh heaven.

But then what do we do? Mass and caress the body of his partner as a whole and not put all on the erogenous zones … The hands, legs, feet, back, shoulders and even the face: it is the set the body that must be stimulated, not just the breasts, buttocks or sex.

Remember then the G-spot and clitoris, they are not more important than the arm or neck … Indeed, the goal of Tantra (in the sexual sense) is the union and fusion of the couple. Making love in an approach inspired tantric back to listen to his body and that of his partner, while slowing the moment of orgasm. Each partner must go with pleasure, without seeking to cause orgasm while we even tend to forget. The idea is to just enjoy this merger with its partner, this slow, gradual rise of desire and pleasure. The energy of one is transmitted to the other and vice versa in a merger of the total torque, slow and without complex.

Unlike a lambda sex where one seeks to raise the fun as soon as possible by stimulating the erogenous zones, the watchword of Tantrism is: take your time! Remember when orgasm caused by a “coming and going” or clitoral stimulation … tantric orgasm vibrates the entire body, from head to toe and it is the whole body which is transcended. An orgasm can be achieved without there being penetration or ejaculation.

Tantra: how to slow the arrival of orgasm?

Tantric sex is the length: it can last two to three hours for experienced couples. While some couples prefer to avoid penetration to be sure to keep it as long as possible, you can reach the tantric orgasm while practicing it.

But when there is penetration, slowing the arrival of an orgasm requires real technique and a great habit. For this, we must succeed in mastering the contractions associated with the rise of pleasure, including musclant her perineum and adopting a relaxing breath. Or by making breaks at times. Breathing is a key element of the tantric orgasm: it must be slow, deep and help calm the contractions caused by the rise of excitement.

Generally, it fails to tantric orgasm at the first attempt: it takes time and practice to learn to control his pleasure, his excitement. Getting to meditation can be a solution to learn to lead her breath and calm his excitement. Workshops and introductory courses in Tantra can also be an interesting alternative for couples who want to try the experience of Tantric orgasm.