As I’ll be talking a lot about BDSM in this blog, I might as well explain the different aspects of it, and specify some terms that are open to interpretation.
Despite the possibility of this being the ten-thousandth blog to attempt to explain the abbreviation, it’s still striking to me how little-known and misunderstood it still is in wider circles. Therefore, having more sex-positive information on the internet is a good thing I think, especially for the odd wandering spirits out there.
BDSM, to me, is a sexual orientation, or to be more exact: a meta-sexual orientation, for BDSM is about more than sexuality. It is still very controversial in the Western world. It generally used to be labelled as a sickness and as dangerous before the 1990s, but since then attitudes have changed toward the positive. It still has a reputation problem however. Not many people actively object to…
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