This video show more or less what is a tantric massage but know that when I give it to you, I massage you with my hands, my arms, my hairs, my breasts and my butt for you to have the max of sensuality. This massage make you go from relaxation to excitation and finish by an orgasm. Enjoy 😉
I had the idea for this approach because I face regularly to a number of gentlemen who share that they are in need of tenderness, sweets, hugs … for a variety of reasons: absence of a partner (celibacy, bereavement, divorce …) spouse not available for this kind of exchange, fear of contact (past abused (e), domestic violence …), …
When this lack of hugs becomes a daily habit, there comes a time when our memory and especially our body memory does not even know what a smooth sharing time. We lost the “manual” … we do not even know how to dare to enter again into a single body contact to another? So imagine the difficulty in a body contact “skin to skin”!
The objectives of this approach:
In a climate of trust and respect, you can (re) learn in this area gently
How do I show to the other my desire to make body contact with him / her?
How can I receive the body contact request from the other?
How can I put my limit in body contact while respecting me and respecting the other?
What I feel and what my body feels as soft bodily attentions of the other?
How to (re) learn that the tenderness of contact, gentleness, hugs can also live without any genital approach sex?
The tantric massage is the answer to the lack of tenderness but also to the orgasm which is important to have a good psychologic and physic health.
INITIATION STEP BY STEP
Aware of the difficulties some people may have to live from the outset a session of “Tantric Massage” as described in the relevant heading, I decided to offer sessions tailored to your level of evolution as well as your limits.
Some people may wish to keep their underwear or even, do not be massaged fully in the first session. Others will not endure the body massage or body being hugged. The establishment of a climate of trust as well as the installation of a gradual and evolutionary process will prove necessary.
But you will progress at your own pace!
The freedom to be “self” is an initiatory journey … Sometimes you allow time to time. It has been so for ourselves.
We understand very well that he can be the same for you.
My wish is to accompany you on this journey at best, in any way put you in pain.
THE TANTRIC MASSAGE
This technique has its source in Tantra means “woven together” in Sanskrit.
Far from being complex and esoteric, it is a simple process, progressive, accessible to all who wish to find an easy and conscious way to bring the mind to sex, to honor sexual union as a bridge between the body and the soul.
It gives a new dimension to the experience of orgasm: here genital orgasm is not a goal in itself … it is only the beginning of a journey that explored and developed, leads to the ecstasy, a state of divine consciousness uniting us with the All. This is also the way to a “sacred sexuality” helping the body to be free of his armor, the heart to be open and trusting, and spirit to develop skills such as visualization, imagination and meditation. When this integration is done, you are ready for a new sensual and sexual experience, qualitatively richer in which physical pleasure becomes a delight the heart and an ecstasy of mind.
Fundamentally different from traditional massage techniques, here I will consider you in your entirety: body, heart, soul. All your energies will be stimulated, including your sexual energies known as Kundalini. Kundalini is an intense energy, coiled like a snake at the sacrum bone. This divine sexual energy, once awakened, leads the subject to the higher of the self-consciousness. The sessions take place in absolute nudity for both the recipient and the giver. The one bares literally and figuratively … down the masks! Each session is a prefocus to determine your motivations, your goals and your expectations.
For 60 minutes depending on the selected session, you will be massaged, loved, pampered, coddled, caressed with respect … every inch of your skin will be explored. Your Yoni or Lingam will hardly spared. All your senses will be awakened and titillated. You will be hugged and kissed tenderly (little kisses). I use their hands, forearms, fingers, body and
I will throughout this massage encourage you to give you … to BE. Each session is unique because you are unique. Some people will laugh, cry or moan other. The fun will speak very easily for some, will be imperceptible to others. Our history, our joys and our sorrows are what we are at a particular moment. Some bodies locked too may react very surprisingly when breastplates collapse. Anyway, RELEASE MAKING! Give yourself the right to be who you are! Be aware that the quality of your experience depends largely on your ability to give up and to trust us. Together, these two ingredients you will live, I hope, a wonderful experience!
The pleasure of tuition
Never information on sexuality have been many and varied. But medical or technical know-just to learn to love? Nothing is less certain. In this regard also, it is the practical work that count.
You noticed: we are bombarded with information about sexuality. Practical Guides, radio, newspaper articles or educational websites … The means of accumulating knowledge on the subject abound. What have I discovered while walking through the maze of information? That “suck a menthol lozenge before practicing fellatio add a fragrant note to my sex.”
Either. That “the most famous collectors of fun – called corpuscles Krause – focus on erogenous zones, including the tassels of the clitoris and penis; smart, they know how to distinguish a mechanical feel of a sense impression caress ”
Really? That validated what I already knew! Not to mention a practical exercise: “To provide a long cunnilingus, its movements can be varied by writing the letters of the alphabet with your tongue … Then we can practice writing complete sentences. ”
A psychic activity
These anatomical explanations or gymnastics to me they will learn to love, that is to say, to be ever closer, physically and emotionally, from the one I have chosen to share such intimacy? Not sure. There is something irreducible in human sexuality, something that prevents to restrict it to only words or gestures used to describe it. This dimension is the essential role played by the mind.
Everyone experiences it at the age of his first masturbation “Like alone, the hand is not enough, the teenager discovers he can not masturbate without using fantasies, says psychoanalyst Didier Dumas, indicating to him that sexual activity is first psychic activity. do you even lift
Furthermore, if we are informed, we are rarely introduced to the symbolic or transcendent sexuality, which is contacted with the unfathomable questions of human existence, procreation, life, death … In search of this dimension, many turn elsewhere to Eastern philosophies and their “art of loving” linked to the sacred.
Norms and standards
Irreducible, psychic or spiritual, can nevertheless be taught sexuality as well as foreign languages? Historically, different “teachers” have sought, with different motivations, to teach us to love. Ovid’s Art of Love and his or refined texts and thousands of non-Western cultures, such as the famous Kama-sutra, are probably the best examples. Reports of the latter sentences about love, however, we have remembered one chapter – the one on the positions – on its seven hundred dedicated to human relationships! The Church is also concerned about our antics. St. Augustine’s texts, which founded the Christian doctrine on the couple and sexuality, even today define the boundaries of forbidden on fidelity, procreation and “purification of pleasure.” Science also got involved. As described by the philosopher Michel Foucault, our Western modernity has taken us to a “science – accurate and normative – of sexuality”
The pioneers of this new field of study – doctors and sexologists – wanted to give us the key to désinhiber us reaching levels of fun liberating. The first standards are then born: for women, the educational goal became “orgasm”; for men, “take a long time to allow women to reach orgasm.” Rapidly, especially since the AIDS, “technicisation” and the medicalization of sexuality have increased. And standardization also. Our education is now limited to two aspects: learning gestures safe – wear a condom, know when to perform oral sex, etc. – And seek always more fun.
In this consumerist quest for the “more fun” sex industry has become the new teacher. Now, it takes with it when it comes to sex education because today, 58% of boys and 45% of girls 13 years have seen a porno film (according Michela Marzano in Alice in porn Ramsay, 2005). This will certainly affect their sexual learning
TANTRIC METHOD,WHAT IS IT?
It is time to lift the confusion: tantric method, it consists of what? Michel: “It’s about learning to enter eroticism with the sole energy of the body, bypassing mental projections. Without making a film that turns the other into an object of enjoyment. Why look fictitious external images so that one is facing a real partner? “Carmen,” This is the experience of unity with oneself and with each other. You have to go up the genital energy throughout the body, so that orgasm radiates us completely and does not stay stuck in the pelvis. To achieve this alchemy between the bottom and the top, open each of our chakras, the energy centers located between the perineum and the fontanel. do you even lift
Maybe, but how is it done? Exercise: it gives the music a kind of pace that will crescendo, free of any melody. Legs apart and slightly bent, it sways the pelvis back and forth. “You have to feel the energy in the balls! “Claims Carmen. It undulates, it undulates. We breathe hard. “And now, it traces the energy! In the belly! “And above, in the chest, throat, in the head, faster … It’s hard, the muscles pull. A real gym class.
Girls choose a partner. Wave two is better. But if the gestures, breaths and groans of the assembly look like those of animals in heat, I do not feel even rising in me that famous energy. We repeat the exercise, this time lengthened. Same movements of the pelvis, a little less tiring, a little more sensual. Carmen same exhortations of “The scrotum! We do not forget the scrotum! “I end leached and I swear never to forget my p … scrotum
EXCHANGE OF ENERGY
The following exercise is softer. This time it is to communicate its energy to his partner. In the lotus position, face to face, palms against the palms, lulled by the hypnotic refrain of a Sufi mantra. “Do not let your eyes and open your heart, asks Michael. But do not try to seduce. “Message received? At the end of the year – fifteen minutes of intense gaze – my partner tells me that she felt in me a strong energy enclosed in a steel shell. For energy, I do not know, but for the shell, well, it is not wrong. The following sequence should just help me loosen some bolts. Because now we enter the heart of the matter: Tantric massage for all.
I MASSAGE YOU, YOU MASSAGE ME
Everyone gets undressed, the two most modest – which I am – do not keep a sarong. Even Jane, who had thought ahead a simple conference on Tantra, is in a thong. Fourth surprise: I discovered that – as long as we talk to him nicely – anyone can get naked and let knead by unknown hands. Two participants are involved in a third. I am entitled to the expertise of Carmen and a young yoga teacher. Carmen says that we must consider all parts of the body with the same neutrality. “Fondling a toe or a penis, it is similar, if we do not put fantasy. “Even the scrotum? “The whole body is sacred, it should be treated with respect. “OK. Let’s go.
Lying with his eyes closed, in a full of sighs bliss, everyone indulges like a baby the pleasure of being hit by four hands, without taboo. If an erection advertisement? “No problem, say Carmen, it is nature. “Michael reminds us still to focus on the sensations and hunt projections. There will be no erection. And, curiously, no frustration either. We would like it just does not stop. Fully relaxed, I finally understand what sensations to send me this experience.
To those we have all known a summer afternoon when, to escape the heat, we gently stretches naked in the shade of a room. We can bend, certainly, but without trying to precipitate action. A clenching a brief genital drive, we prefer a bit lazy, being invaded by a gentle relaxation of the body. Two, they love naps can last for hours. And these are the best. I leave the session with two certainties: the tantric path can allow us any time to recreate this summer paradise for body and mind, and ejaculation can wait. It may not even be a goal. Thirty years of priapic convictions come to collapse, and I do not even wrong.
TANTRA OR SEXUALITY LIVED AS A MEDITATION
Reduce the tantric sexuality would be an aberration. Indeed, it is on the fertile soil of Hinduism and Buddhism that Tantrism appeared in India in the seventh century, as a complex spiritual current. It offers the awareness of our fundamental unity of body and mind, in connection with the universe at all times and in all life.
This approach involves learning of our dual polarity, male and female, and acceptance of our whole reality, with its shadows and lights. This is the uniqueness of Tantra as not to be a philosophy of renunciation: “It is no longer necessary to flee the body to find peace, because the body itself becomes a sacred temple: the place of bliss.
Sexuality is experienced as a meditation where, through breathing and body relaxation techniques, each partner may feel a sense of profound unity with himself and with each other. For completeness, orgasm can not therefore be strictly genital, and men are encouraged to achieve without ejaculation. It is no longer about master it, but to be able to forget.
J’essaye de vous trouver une video qui montre un vrai massage tantrique sensuel où la femme masse toutes les parties du corps de l’homme avec toutes les parties de son corps. Je ne vois que des massages faits avec les mains. Beaucoup d’articles sont écris sur le sujet mais je pense que pour apprendre un massage il faut voir et non lire. Donc je cherche des vidéos et non je n’en trouve pas d’assez intéressantes. Celles qui le sont sont censurées bien sur, comme d’habitude. Vive la Belgique!
I try to find you a video that shows a true sensual tantric massage where the wife mass all parts of the man body with all parts of her body. I see only massages made with hands. Many articles are written on the subject but I think to learn a massage must be seen and not read. So I’m looking videos and I do not find it interesting enough. Those that are good are censored of course, as usual. Long live Belgium!
FR (thank you to translate it with Translate google )
Le sexe tantrique tente de mettre deux partenaires d’amour ensemble dans plus que juste une manière physique. Le mot Tantra est sanskrit et est dérivé de la racine du mot sens tan “d’étendre, élargir, diffusion, continuera, spin out, armure, de mettre en avant ou manifeste.” L’idée est d’étendre votre esprit et englober votre corps pour atteindre le satisfaction ultime. Dans la pratique du Tantra, il ya une sorte de «conscience-être-bonheur” qui a le pouvoir d’auto-évolution et auto-involution (apprentissage et d’approfondissement et à la recherche sur soi). par conséquent, l’évolution de l’auto aide pour amener deux personnes à se rapprocher.
Un élément essentiel de Tantra prend du temps de se absorber en soi et votre partenaire. Les méthodes apprises et utilisées dans le sexe tantrique fournissent sensations et le plaisir sexuel beaucoup plus intense et complexe qu’un orgasme simple. Dans le sexe tantrique, l’orgasme est tout simplement un sous-produit de la connectivité nous nous sentons avec notre partenaire.
Vous commencez par créer un environnement qui est exempt de distractions, une zone qui est calme, calme et paisible. Votre espace sacré doit être propre de l’encombrement, décoré pacifiquement, chaleureux et accueillant. Comme vous allez être nu, la pièce doit être aussi bien au chaud de la température. Rien ne vous déconnecte de votre amant comme un corps frissonnant. Jouer de la musique douce, allumant des bougies, et être à l’aise sont tous particulièrement important dans la création d’un environnement tantrique.
Une fois que vous êtes dans votre amour paradis, se asseoir sur le lit, face à l’autre, regarder dans les yeux les uns des autres, et tout simplement respirer. Vous devez entrer en contact avec le rythme de l’autre. Vous inspirez et expirez à dessein, en accordant une attention au rythme de votre amant. Comme vous continuez à respirer ensemble, vous devenez plus proche spirituellement, plus détendu et plus à l’écoute. Le plus à l’écoute que vous êtes, plus conscients et connecté.
Le sexe tantrique est pas une course à la finition. Le sexe tantrique est lente et réfléchie, mais amusant. Alors que Tantristes traditionnels pratiquer l’amour lente pendant des heures et des heures, la personne moyenne à essayer d’apprendre Tantra ne va pas avoir la patience ou, franchement, la volonté de consacrer ce moment. L’idée est de ne pas se précipiter, de vous amuser et faire comme très excité que vous le pouvez.
L’idée de base ici est de caresser, accident vasculaire cérébral, lécher, toucher, embrasser, et autrement taquiner et profiter de l’autre. Vous pouvez prendre des virages avec une lente, massage séduisante ou tout simplement se asseoir et se toucher lentement. Rendre hommage au corps de votre amant – tout cela. Cela signifie que les oreilles, le nez, le cou, le ventre, les cuisses, les pieds, et ainsi de suite. L’objectif est de se familiariser, détendu, et suscité par la personne tout entière, et pas seulement le pénis ou le vagin si vous pouvez inclure un massage Lingam et Yoni dans le cadre de vos ébats amoureux.
Lorsque vous commencez la phase de rapport sexuel proprement dit, il est important de vous amener à un état d’excitation, puis laissez-vous vers le bas. Cela signifie, pendant que vous faites l’amour, quand l’homme se sent son orgasme imminente, il doit arrêter, respirer, descendre un peu, et puis continuer à plaisir son partenaire et lui-même. Ce ne construit pas seulement un niveau énorme de tension sexuelle, mais il développe également la maîtrise de soi, renforce le lien émotionnel et rend la version finale dix fois plus intense.
Finalement, les deux partenaires vont arriver au point où ils doivent libérer. Depuis le sexe tantrique implique une connexion totale, que vous vous apprêtez à sortir votre tension sexuelle, assurez-vous de regarder profondément dans les yeux de votre amant, sentir leur respiration, et de communiquer vos sentiments. Quand un couple est connecté de cette manière, l’orgasme qui vient sera totalement avalement. Orgasme ne signifie pas que voyage se termine bien. Prenez le temps de se connecter avec un autre, et votre propre voie vers l’illumination commencera.