Massage Tantric, Harmony within the Couple

MASSAGE TANTRIC, HARMONY WITHIN THE COUPLE 

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tantric massage, total harmony between body and mind

Tantric massage is often seen as a purely erotic approach inevitably leads to sex. However, this exchange is much deeper. Tantric massage is designed to awaken the sensuality and sensitivity between the two partners, rediscovering touch and by establishing a harmony between body and mind. Whether giving up, giving and receiving are three key aspects in a tantric massage.

Tantric Massage: What is Tantra?

Before going into the details of tantric massage should be briefly define what Tantra. This is a current inspired by Indian and Chinese ancient traditions. Tantra is a quest, a spiritual opening with sexual energy. The concept of sexuality is present, but in addition to relaxation, sensuality, to discover the sense of self and the other, etc.

Tantric massage is taught in tantra – esoteric sacred books. All parts of the body are considered in the same way. Thus, the genitals can be massaged without there being any ulterior motives on the part of the masseur or massaged. During tantric massage both partners are naked and use a hot oil to increase the benefits of their movements.

Note there are no established rules for the practice of tantric massage. Sensuality, harmony and responsiveness are the guidelines of this form of massage. Here are some tips that will help you practice what massage and make it effective.

First part of tantric massage

Above all, it is essential to create a soft, warm and soothing. Create an atmosphere of relaxation during a massage is always recommended, and more in the case of tantric massage, it goes without saying. The room must be well heated and very soft lighting. The candles are still the best when it comes time to create an intimate atmosphere. Incense and relaxing music will also bring warmth and relaxation to your massage. Tantric massage usually starts with the back but, again, there is no ready-made technique. However, it is better not to address the erogenous zones at once, to get comfortable your partner and yourself.

Start by massaging the sacrum your partner, then lying (e) on the belly. Slowly go up to his shoulders and neck with emphasis on the region of the spine. Your movements should be slow, deep and linked. Massage her neck and shoulders, arms and hands. Take care then the lower part of the body: legs, buttocks and feet. You can then begin to massage the inside of her thighs and groin area.

Then comes the time to open the chakras, the energy points found seven in number in the human body. In humans, it is the solar plexus it will linger, while in women, these energy points are stimulated by gentle massage of the lower abdomen (below the navel).

Second part of tantric massage

In women: the man can continue his tantric massage up towards the top and caressing the breasts, arms and hands of his partner. It will then dwell on the upper body, stroking his neck, scalp, face and ears, all with gentleness and tenderness. The sex of the partner can now be touched … but without erotic ideas! The purpose of massage is for now the relaxation and discovery of self and the other. Then back down to her legs and massage them gently in depth by making harmonious gestures. Step back now to the upper body and alternate massage and caresses.

In humans: the woman can continue her massage massaging the belly of his partner and his shoulders. The neck and throat can then be petted. Now go down to sex, testicles and anus of your partner. Touch these areas gently but even “directive” as Sir, no ulterior motives (for the moment). Tantric massage is intended as a discovery of sense and sensitivity of each and a moment of relaxation of body and mind. Once the genitals of your partner relaxed, down to her legs and massage them deeply, slowly. Step back now to the upper body and massage her chest, shoulders, arms and hands. Take care of her face then you masserez and caresserez softly. Remember to alternate between the two partners must be massaged and massaged.

Tantric Sex What is it?

TANTRIC SEX WHAT IS IT?

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My partner and I have heard of tantric sex, but we do not know exactly what it is. Can you tell us where to start?
Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means “woven together”. Followers of the Hindu and Buddhist meditation use the metaphor of sexual union to describe the union between the physical and the spiritual: the relationship between a man and a woman, between the human and the divine. The goal is to be one with God. Tantra is Western expression of this sacred form of sexuality: he taught to practice slow sex without orgasm. Couples I receive in my office and who engage in this form of sexual practice have discovered they can develop a great pleasure for the senses and learn to blend one into the other, an intense and loving feeling. The goal is to reach the light and not to win an Olympic medal to a carnal gymnastics competitions.

Here is a first exercise to start with tantric method. Fully clothed, stand face to face and look at the eyes of your partner. Support his gaze to create an intimate relationship. To reduce tension, some cheat leaving their eyes go between the eyes of the partner. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, then you look at his soul, he looks yours. Then, synchronize your breathing: breathe in unison, exhale simultaneously. Then, alternate your breaths: inhale when it expires, breathe on her inspiration, like taking possession of the other by his breath. Continue for ten minutes.

To switch to tantric sex, do the same process without clothing. Sit on his lap, facing him and circle the size of your legs. Practice sharing breath and start to kiss and caress you. In time, unite slowly while continuing kisses and caresses. Do not stop looking at you. And here’s where things get tough: by becoming more skilled, you will develop an ability to obtain extended orgasm. In men and women, it is a variant of the multiple orgasm. You live in the ecstasy of top without ever reaching the climax. You live all the sensations of a typical orgasm for several minutes or even hours, bypassing traditional orgasm. You will then know a very deep emotional and sexual union.

Refocus
The infernal schedule of modern life often prevents us to stop and focus intently on our partner. Tantric sex can improve our relationship and our sexual pleasure in many ways. First, amplified breathing and contact can help create a sense of intimacy. This sensation can only allow you to open your heart to the approximation, a greater love and forgiveness. Then the slow pace of tantric sex will take you to explore the sensuality of your body and your mind. Make love for an hour or more is like turning a hamburger in an epicurean feast. Both satisfy your hunger, but the feast will be more delicious, more enjoyable and satisfying. Finally, even if you do not like the idea of avoiding the climax, these practices can help you achieve sexual ecstasy and personal privacy that goes far beyond traditional orgasm.