Tips for a good Massage Erotic for you Man

TIPS FOR A GOOD MASSAGE EROTIC FOR YOUR MAN

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When the stimulator erotic massage becomes your libido!

Erotic massage, sensual massage: Ladies, offering an erotic massage to your partner you will overwhelm the least, you will stimulate his libido! Atmosphere, basic techniques, imagination and sensuality will be part of your program, to make this moment a delight to the senses of your beloved companion. Here are some suggestions massage, without forgetting that the most important is the tenderness and passion you put into it ….

Create an atmosphere to make your erotic massage more enjoyable
If the erotic massage helps relax the body and mind, however, it is essential that both partners are in advance relatively relaxed. The atmosphere is the second factor crucial to the success of your erotic massage. Before you embark on an erotic massage, so make sure that nothing will disturb you – no children, no phone. For erotic massage, choose a cozy room in which you and your partner will be able to expand and create a “sensual atmosphere”, with soothing lighting and soft music. Candles and incense accentuate the romantic and aphrodisiac effect. The room temperature should be adequate: you will be neither under the covers or dressed – or very little! Do not forget to plan for performing erotic massage massage oil to increase the feelings of your partner and allow your hands to glide easily. IF you want to massage his genitals, obtain an oil that may come into contact with mucous membranes and is not irritating. When erotic massage, be attentive to the various reactions of your partner (sounds, movements, etc.) to adapt your massage according to their preferences. His breathing is another indicator of its condition and will tell you a lot about his feelings. Dress side, put a nice string, but do not put anything on top; you will need to spice up your breasts massage …

Different erotic massage techniques
The effleurage is generally used at the beginning and the end of the massage and soothing action. It is simply placing your hands on your partner – tense and tight – and to touch her skin, applying light pressure. Mixing remains the most dynamic method erotic massage. Mainly used to massage the buttocks and hips, this technique involves lifting the flesh of one hand and then performing a twisting motion with each other. To perform this action, please press on both thumbs. Percussion is to tap a portion of your partner’s body with your hands. Percussion can take different forms for erotic massage: pat (fingertip) hatching (when the hands are in vertical position) or the beat (the fists are closed here). This technique is ideal for back, hips and thighs. The technique of the jaws of the tiger – which is thus nicknamed because of the position V obtained by removing the index finger and thumb – is mainly for the legs and torso. This method is used to go along the muscles by applying pressure very pleasant. It is particularly relaxing. Finally, with erotic massage, you can also adopt the kneading technique. It is to enter the muscle mass of the area being massaged and then tighten it between your fingers. Only the tips of the fingers and thumbs are in action. This method is ideal for massaging the fleshy areas and activate blood circulation.

Erotic massage, do not forget the basics!
Filled with constantly muscles and nerves, back deserves attention here generously for erotic massage. Start by touching the back of your fingertips partner then scrape it a few moments with your nails, gently. Then massage her shoulders down to the elbows. Continue putting you on all fours above him, to touch his skin with your breasts, down to the level of her buttocks. If you have not applied massage oil for erotic massage, you can stroke his back, buttocks and earlobes with your tongue and lips. Then knead her buttocks sensually – provided it is not touchy. When erotic massage, you masserez legs of your partner, start with the calves making sweeping motions, one hand after the other up. Note that the massage oil is highly recommended for this part, so do not pull hair. When masserez thighs rather make a scuffing and do not hesitate to conclude this step, use your lips (staying on course thighs as erotic massage is not yet complete). Do not neglect your feet; massaging, you will overwhelm your partner. It is mostly thumbs that will work, exerting pressure on the entire sole of the foot. You can also use your tongue and lips to caress her toes – provided it is not touchy. For the rest of erotic massage, to you to decide, you improvise …

Massage Tantric, Harmony within the Couple

MASSAGE TANTRIC, HARMONY WITHIN THE COUPLE 

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tantric massage, total harmony between body and mind

Tantric massage is often seen as a purely erotic approach inevitably leads to sex. However, this exchange is much deeper. Tantric massage is designed to awaken the sensuality and sensitivity between the two partners, rediscovering touch and by establishing a harmony between body and mind. Whether giving up, giving and receiving are three key aspects in a tantric massage.

Tantric Massage: What is Tantra?

Before going into the details of tantric massage should be briefly define what Tantra. This is a current inspired by Indian and Chinese ancient traditions. Tantra is a quest, a spiritual opening with sexual energy. The concept of sexuality is present, but in addition to relaxation, sensuality, to discover the sense of self and the other, etc.

Tantric massage is taught in tantra – esoteric sacred books. All parts of the body are considered in the same way. Thus, the genitals can be massaged without there being any ulterior motives on the part of the masseur or massaged. During tantric massage both partners are naked and use a hot oil to increase the benefits of their movements.

Note there are no established rules for the practice of tantric massage. Sensuality, harmony and responsiveness are the guidelines of this form of massage. Here are some tips that will help you practice what massage and make it effective.

First part of tantric massage

Above all, it is essential to create a soft, warm and soothing. Create an atmosphere of relaxation during a massage is always recommended, and more in the case of tantric massage, it goes without saying. The room must be well heated and very soft lighting. The candles are still the best when it comes time to create an intimate atmosphere. Incense and relaxing music will also bring warmth and relaxation to your massage. Tantric massage usually starts with the back but, again, there is no ready-made technique. However, it is better not to address the erogenous zones at once, to get comfortable your partner and yourself.

Start by massaging the sacrum your partner, then lying (e) on the belly. Slowly go up to his shoulders and neck with emphasis on the region of the spine. Your movements should be slow, deep and linked. Massage her neck and shoulders, arms and hands. Take care then the lower part of the body: legs, buttocks and feet. You can then begin to massage the inside of her thighs and groin area.

Then comes the time to open the chakras, the energy points found seven in number in the human body. In humans, it is the solar plexus it will linger, while in women, these energy points are stimulated by gentle massage of the lower abdomen (below the navel).

Second part of tantric massage

In women: the man can continue his tantric massage up towards the top and caressing the breasts, arms and hands of his partner. It will then dwell on the upper body, stroking his neck, scalp, face and ears, all with gentleness and tenderness. The sex of the partner can now be touched … but without erotic ideas! The purpose of massage is for now the relaxation and discovery of self and the other. Then back down to her legs and massage them gently in depth by making harmonious gestures. Step back now to the upper body and alternate massage and caresses.

In humans: the woman can continue her massage massaging the belly of his partner and his shoulders. The neck and throat can then be petted. Now go down to sex, testicles and anus of your partner. Touch these areas gently but even “directive” as Sir, no ulterior motives (for the moment). Tantric massage is intended as a discovery of sense and sensitivity of each and a moment of relaxation of body and mind. Once the genitals of your partner relaxed, down to her legs and massage them deeply, slowly. Step back now to the upper body and massage her chest, shoulders, arms and hands. Take care of her face then you masserez and caresserez softly. Remember to alternate between the two partners must be massaged and massaged.

Tantra – A Beautiful Alternative

Tantric Goddess of Sensual Touch

Tantra is and ancient healing art with powerful energies which can bring a new positive attitude to negative thoughts that may be holding you back in many area of your life. Doctors are all too quick to prescribe pills and psychotherapy when all we sometimes need is space and a little time to de-stress and find peace away from the phone, TV and noise.

Stress is one of the biggest ailments in our modern world it affects our well-being in so many ways. An inability to relax fully in the moment has a huge bearing in our sensual and sexual lives.

A Tantra massage can be the first step to dealing with premature ejaculation problems, a relaxed setting, intrinsic breathing techniques can give confidence to slow the act down which in turn allows the body to prolong the pleasure aspect before orgasm. The massage also alleviates the negative thought spiral…

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Tantric Sex What is it?

TANTRIC SEX WHAT IS IT?

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My partner and I have heard of tantric sex, but we do not know exactly what it is. Can you tell us where to start?
Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means “woven together”. Followers of the Hindu and Buddhist meditation use the metaphor of sexual union to describe the union between the physical and the spiritual: the relationship between a man and a woman, between the human and the divine. The goal is to be one with God. Tantra is Western expression of this sacred form of sexuality: he taught to practice slow sex without orgasm. Couples I receive in my office and who engage in this form of sexual practice have discovered they can develop a great pleasure for the senses and learn to blend one into the other, an intense and loving feeling. The goal is to reach the light and not to win an Olympic medal to a carnal gymnastics competitions.

Here is a first exercise to start with tantric method. Fully clothed, stand face to face and look at the eyes of your partner. Support his gaze to create an intimate relationship. To reduce tension, some cheat leaving their eyes go between the eyes of the partner. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, then you look at his soul, he looks yours. Then, synchronize your breathing: breathe in unison, exhale simultaneously. Then, alternate your breaths: inhale when it expires, breathe on her inspiration, like taking possession of the other by his breath. Continue for ten minutes.

To switch to tantric sex, do the same process without clothing. Sit on his lap, facing him and circle the size of your legs. Practice sharing breath and start to kiss and caress you. In time, unite slowly while continuing kisses and caresses. Do not stop looking at you. And here’s where things get tough: by becoming more skilled, you will develop an ability to obtain extended orgasm. In men and women, it is a variant of the multiple orgasm. You live in the ecstasy of top without ever reaching the climax. You live all the sensations of a typical orgasm for several minutes or even hours, bypassing traditional orgasm. You will then know a very deep emotional and sexual union.

Refocus
The infernal schedule of modern life often prevents us to stop and focus intently on our partner. Tantric sex can improve our relationship and our sexual pleasure in many ways. First, amplified breathing and contact can help create a sense of intimacy. This sensation can only allow you to open your heart to the approximation, a greater love and forgiveness. Then the slow pace of tantric sex will take you to explore the sensuality of your body and your mind. Make love for an hour or more is like turning a hamburger in an epicurean feast. Both satisfy your hunger, but the feast will be more delicious, more enjoyable and satisfying. Finally, even if you do not like the idea of avoiding the climax, these practices can help you achieve sexual ecstasy and personal privacy that goes far beyond traditional orgasm.

Tantrism to the Orgasm Tantric

TANTRISM TO THE ORGASM TANTRIC
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Tantra…Tantric orgasm
If Tantra is basically a spiritual power straight from India, today is a method to many Western couples to reach the 7th heaven. Every day seminars, workshops and training we are also proposed to achieve the tantric orgasm … But what Tantra? How to practice? What’s behind the term tantric orgasm? Decryption.
Tantra, a new method to achieve the seventh heaven? Far from it … If the past few years we hear of Tantra as a sexual practice, it is actually a life philosophy born there over 1500 years in India. Basically, we call a set of tantric texts and rituals which aims, through the exploration of the senses, to reach a total alertness.

Like yoga, tantra uses breathing and meditation as main tools of awakening. All the senses are stimulated in Tantric philosophy, including the senses called “carnal.” Hence the assimilation of a tantric sexual practice … It also speaks of tantric orgasm, a state of ecstasy which, according to those who have already tested (and approved!), Would be two three times stronger than a “classic” orgasm …

Is Tantra does it for me?

Tantra is mainly for couples: love and trust are two essential keys to achieve the tantric orgasm. Another prerequisite for playing the “game tantric” not consider sexual intercourse only as a means to achieve orgasm.

In the Tantric philosophy is the way that leads to orgasm is more important than the orgasm itself. Thus, we do not make love to achieve coitus but for all the fun and relaxation that comes from the union and fusion of the couple and the chemistry that emerges. Better indeed speak of discovery (carnal) our sense of sex. Conversely the quick sex, intercourse inspired tantric tends to push the point of orgasm to enjoy the fusion of the couple.

But then, what may suit couples Tantra? To all those who wish to “get” discover new sensations and love their lover (s) in a different way. However, test the tantric approach can be only two: if one partner is reluctant, it will hinder the tantric orgasm that requires a total relaxation of both partners.

Tantric Orgasm: what a difference a lambda orgasm?

Unlike “traditional” orgasm, orgasm tantric journey throughout the body and can be triggered without ejaculation there is no penetration. This is more of an explosion of the senses of the whole body as a localized orgasm in the pelvis. This is the principle of Tantrism: we no longer speak of sex but of discovering meaning in both. Thus, during sexual intercourse inspired Tantra, fellatio, cunnilingus and penetration are no longer essential to reach the seventh heaven.

But then what do we do? Mass and caress the body of his partner as a whole and not put all on the erogenous zones … The hands, legs, feet, back, shoulders and even the face: it is the set the body that must be stimulated, not just the breasts, buttocks or sex.

Remember then the G-spot and clitoris, they are not more important than the arm or neck … Indeed, the goal of Tantra (in the sexual sense) is the union and fusion of the couple. Making love in an approach inspired tantric back to listen to his body and that of his partner, while slowing the moment of orgasm. Each partner must go with pleasure, without seeking to cause orgasm while we even tend to forget. The idea is to just enjoy this merger with its partner, this slow, gradual rise of desire and pleasure. The energy of one is transmitted to the other and vice versa in a merger of the total torque, slow and without complex.

Unlike a lambda sex where one seeks to raise the fun as soon as possible by stimulating the erogenous zones, the watchword of Tantrism is: take your time! Remember when orgasm caused by a “coming and going” or clitoral stimulation … tantric orgasm vibrates the entire body, from head to toe and it is the whole body which is transcended. An orgasm can be achieved without there being penetration or ejaculation.

Tantra: how to slow the arrival of orgasm?

Tantric sex is the length: it can last two to three hours for experienced couples. While some couples prefer to avoid penetration to be sure to keep it as long as possible, you can reach the tantric orgasm while practicing it.

But when there is penetration, slowing the arrival of an orgasm requires real technique and a great habit. For this, we must succeed in mastering the contractions associated with the rise of pleasure, including musclant her perineum and adopting a relaxing breath. Or by making breaks at times. Breathing is a key element of the tantric orgasm: it must be slow, deep and help calm the contractions caused by the rise of excitement.

Generally, it fails to tantric orgasm at the first attempt: it takes time and practice to learn to control his pleasure, his excitement. Getting to meditation can be a solution to learn to lead her breath and calm his excitement. Workshops and introductory courses in Tantra can also be an interesting alternative for couples who want to try the experience of Tantric orgasm.

Les Techniques Fondamentales du Massage Erotique… Partie 2

LES TECHNIQUES FONDAMENTAUX DE MASSAGE EROTIQUE

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L’EFFLEURAGE

PARTIE 2

Dans les vaisseaux lymphatiques la circulation des liquides est activé par l’intermédiaire du glissement lent et ferme des mains.

Pour éviter l’obstruction de la circulation sanguine dans les artères

– dans lequel les flux de sang dans le sens inverse

– les mouvements ne sont pas fluide et continue.

Pendant le ramollissement, il doit y avoir des variations rythmiques de l’intensité de la pression

– les mouvements de la machine à semer.

Comment faire: mouvements simultanés ou alternatifs

Le glissement des mains sur les surfaces massé peut être fait avec les deux mains à la fois (mouvements simultanés) ou avec une main (mouvements alternatifs).

Les mouvements simultanés sont appliqués sur la longueur du corps, de sorte qu’ils sont de longue ou très longue et ils sont les plus appropriés pour le dos, par les bras et les jambes.

Les méthodes alternatives sont effectuées dans trois directions, et sont divisés en:

– Longs mouvements alternatifs sont appliquées de la même manière que les longs mouvements simultanés, avec la seule différence que dans ce cas une seule main sera masser, ou l’autre, à tour de rôle.

– Mouvements alternatifs moyennes – ces mouvements ne sont pas longitudinale, ils sont obliques et sont appliqués sur les membres et sur le dos.

– Mouvements alternatifs courtes

– qui sont transversales.

Par conséquent, les mouvements alternatifs utilisent une main à la fois, et la longue glisse vont perdre de la vitesse et de la pression, devenir lent, tandis que les mouvements courts auront un rythme plus alerte et une pression accrue.

Les mouvements très courts et pressées ont une grande applicabilité dans le traitement des noeuds ainsi que dans les infiltrations de dissipation dans les tissus profonds.
LES EFFETS DE RAMOLLISSEMENT
L’effet le plus important de l’adoucissement se reflète sur la circulation du sang dans les vaisseaux capillaires et superficielles ainsi que sur la circulation lymphatique.

L’action sur la circulation se produit de deux manières:
a) La façon mécanique: à travers les manœuvres d’effleurage le massage agit directement sur les vaisseaux sanguins superficiels, influencer la poussée de la colonne de sang veineux dans le sens dans le flux normal (centripète).

On peut également agir sur la circulation profonde, lorsque le ramollissement est réalisé à la pression, en plus des mouvements que nous avons décrits jusqu’à présent.

Dans le cas des bras et des jambes, la circulation profonde est influencée par le ramollissement inégale, réalisée avec un mouvement circulaire, comme un bracelet ou une bague, autour du bras ou de la jambe du récepteur.

1. Le ramollissement initial établit le récepteur de collaboration – masseur. Le récepteur émerge dans un état de relaxation physique et psychique. Une partie importante à cet égard joue le masseur, qui a parfois recours à un ensemble de l’arsenal psychique y compris la suggestion et cherchant à induire dans le récepteur du massage l’auto-suggestion.

2. Par l’intermédiaire du niveau d’énergie d’augmentation, la circulation périphérique est accéléré, la sollicitation cardiaque est diminuée, et les contractions systolique se produisent plus rarement, la détermination de l’augmentation de la fonction d’éjection.

3. La connaissance du rôle du sébum dans la formation du film de type acide de surface, on peut indiquer que la fonction de la peau comme un agent anti-microbienne et anti-parasite est plus forte.

4. Le thermo-régulation se produit naturellement.

5. Après un intervalle cohérente et persévérante de séances de massage, dans lequel le ramollissement est approfondie et responsable fait, il ya des résultats notables tels que: le maintien du tonus musculaire, de la souplesse et l’élasticité de la peau, et même le renouvellement de l’épiderme. Par conséquent, l’effleurage est considéré comme un élixir véritable de la jeunesse et une arme efficace dans la lutte contre le vieillissement.

6. Grâce à la sueur de l’organisme élimine les substances minérales (Na +, Cl +, K +, Ca +, P-) découlant de la dégradation des substances protéiques (urée, acide urique, créatine et ammoniac) et des substances organiques (acide lactique, etc.) . Une grande partie de ces substances est le résultat de proses biochimiques qui se produisent pendant les contractions musculaires.

7. Le massage favorise la détoxication de l’organisme de ce ballast métabolique.

À cet égard, nous devrons avoir un massage après un effort physique intense, car d’une part elle permet d’éviter la fatigue et o autre part, il favorisera la récupération des propriétés fonctionnelles des tissus.

b) la façon réflexe: les longs mouvements, effectuées avec une faible intensité et le rythme lent ont une action calmante apaisante au niveau du système nerveux et une action de détente sur le niveau de la musculature.

Dans le même temps, ils se arrêtent ou ralentissent les fonctions des tissus ou des organes et diminuent ou inhibent la sensibilité, la conductibilité et la réactivité au niveau des nerfs.

Les mouvements brefs et adoucissantes vigoureuses, appliquées avec le rythme et l’intensité accrue ont éveiller effets.

Nous savons que la température de la peau est incriminée dans la perception de la douleur (basse température diminue elle).

Ce est pourquoi, dans le cas de lésions post-traumatiques, le massage consiste à ramollissements utilisant la glace, jusqu’à l’apparition de l’effet analgésique.

Les Techniques fondamentales du Massage Erotique… Partie 1

LES TECHNIQUES FONDAMENTALES DU MASSAGE EROTIQUE

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EFFLEURAGE

PARTIE 1

Les mouvements utilisés dans le massage manuel – connu sous le nom des techniques manuelles – sont très nombreux et variés. Certains masseurs modifier et combiner des anciennes méthodes ou essayer de créer de nouveaux mouvements pour impressionner par leur diversité et la complexité. Les techniques de massage ont des noms évocateurs selon le type de mouvement ou de son influence sur les tissus. Selon les effets de l’organisme, le techniques de massage ont été divisés en deux grands groupes: .

1 principal ou techniques fondamentales

2.secondaire, aider, ou des techniques d’achèvement

LA MAIN OU TECHNIQUES FONDAMENTAUX DE MASSAGE

Ils sont nommés principale ou fondamentale, car quelle que soit la caractéristique de la région qu’ils travaillent sur, ils sont indispensables de la session de massage. Utilisation des parties molles du corps est méthodique, l’un après l’autre, de la surface jusqu’au fond. La séquence des cinq techniques fondamentales est la suivante: .

1 le ramollissement (effleurage)

2. la friction

3. le pétrissage

4. le battement

5.les vibrations

LES TECHNIQUES SECONDAIRES DE MASSAGE

Ils sont appelés secondaire parce qu’ils complètent l’action des principales, techniques fondamentales. Les techniques secondaires sont généralement étroitement liés entre les fondamentaux.Certaines des techniques secondaires découlent de les fondamentaux, et viennent compléter les techniques de base. Les techniques secondaires les plus importants sont: .

1 criblage et du matériel .

2 pressions

3. tractions et tensions

4. secouant

5. pinçant

les techniques fondamentales le ramollissement (effleurage)

Cette technique vise normalement les téguments. Il se compose de rythmique, de glissement doux sur le corps, appliqué soit avec le dos des mains ou avec les palmiers, dans le sens de back-tourner le flux sanguin des vaisseaux sanguins vénaux et capillaires et dans le sens de l’écoulement de sang de la lymphe dans l’espace et de vaisseaux lymphatiques.

LA SUCCESSION ET LE RYTHME DES MOUVEMENTS

Le, d’adoucissement d’introduction initiale – est nommé comme cela parce que toute séance de massage commencera avec cette technique. Les variations, il permet d’une longue plage, se attardant glisse des mains à des mouvements courts et plus vigoureuses. Cependant, gardez à l’esprit que ce est un massage érotique. Le rythme et l’intensité du travail va croître progressivement, que les mouvements ont un caractère stimulant. Ils visent à «réchauffer» le récepteur pour les prochaines techniques. Le ramollissement finale devrait être effectuée dans la fin de la session de massage. Il a les caractéristiques suivantes:. Le rythme et l’intensité vont diminuer progressivement, de sorte que l’effet sera calmant et relaxant La succession des mouvements sera inversée de ceux de l’adoucissement de lancement – le masseur va commencer avec de courts mouvements vigoureux et se terminera avec persistante à long mouvements. Le massage doit être circulaire, dans le sens où il doit commencer et se terminer avec la même technique.Le rythme de la glisse devrait être un peu plus rapide que la circulation du sang dans les veines. Comme nous l’avons indiqué dans la définition du ramollissement, leur sens est déterminé par la circulation superficielle de sang ou le retour du sang dans les veines à travers les vaisseaux capillaires, et le flux de la lymphe dans les espaces et les vaisseaux lymphatiques. Ainsi, le glissement sur les bras et les jambes seront des extrémités vers le point commun avec le corps.Sur le tronc, le glissement suit le sens de la circulation vers le cœur. Sur la gorge et le cou sont les mouvements de la tête sur les épaules et les omoplates.

L’technique elle-même le ramollissement est réalisée avec:

Les doigts

utiliser les bouts des doigts. Cette technique se adresse principalement aux petites surfaces rondes.

Les paumes

ou le dos de la main – les doigts peuvent être soit propagation ou détenus ensemble. Il est appliqué au plan, surfaces droites, comme le dos. La pression des mouvements sera superficielle et il sera exercé strictement sur ​​les terminaisons nerveuses et vaisseaux de la peau. Lorsque vous désirez agir avec plus de force sur la circulation sanguine dans les tissus plus profonds, en particulier dans les muscles, vous avez besoin d’utiliser des méthodes plus solides, réalisées avec:

–les mains

– les côtés extérieurs des mains

– les poings

Par conséquent, dans les méthodes d’adoucissement , la pression appliquée est adaptée à la nature et la consistance des tissus et en particulier pour les besoins de la personne qui reçoit le massage.