Tantric Sex What is it?

TANTRIC SEX WHAT IS IT?

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My partner and I have heard of tantric sex, but we do not know exactly what it is. Can you tell us where to start?
Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means “woven together”. Followers of the Hindu and Buddhist meditation use the metaphor of sexual union to describe the union between the physical and the spiritual: the relationship between a man and a woman, between the human and the divine. The goal is to be one with God. Tantra is Western expression of this sacred form of sexuality: he taught to practice slow sex without orgasm. Couples I receive in my office and who engage in this form of sexual practice have discovered they can develop a great pleasure for the senses and learn to blend one into the other, an intense and loving feeling. The goal is to reach the light and not to win an Olympic medal to a carnal gymnastics competitions.

Here is a first exercise to start with tantric method. Fully clothed, stand face to face and look at the eyes of your partner. Support his gaze to create an intimate relationship. To reduce tension, some cheat leaving their eyes go between the eyes of the partner. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, then you look at his soul, he looks yours. Then, synchronize your breathing: breathe in unison, exhale simultaneously. Then, alternate your breaths: inhale when it expires, breathe on her inspiration, like taking possession of the other by his breath. Continue for ten minutes.

To switch to tantric sex, do the same process without clothing. Sit on his lap, facing him and circle the size of your legs. Practice sharing breath and start to kiss and caress you. In time, unite slowly while continuing kisses and caresses. Do not stop looking at you. And here’s where things get tough: by becoming more skilled, you will develop an ability to obtain extended orgasm. In men and women, it is a variant of the multiple orgasm. You live in the ecstasy of top without ever reaching the climax. You live all the sensations of a typical orgasm for several minutes or even hours, bypassing traditional orgasm. You will then know a very deep emotional and sexual union.

Refocus
The infernal schedule of modern life often prevents us to stop and focus intently on our partner. Tantric sex can improve our relationship and our sexual pleasure in many ways. First, amplified breathing and contact can help create a sense of intimacy. This sensation can only allow you to open your heart to the approximation, a greater love and forgiveness. Then the slow pace of tantric sex will take you to explore the sensuality of your body and your mind. Make love for an hour or more is like turning a hamburger in an epicurean feast. Both satisfy your hunger, but the feast will be more delicious, more enjoyable and satisfying. Finally, even if you do not like the idea of avoiding the climax, these practices can help you achieve sexual ecstasy and personal privacy that goes far beyond traditional orgasm.

Tantrism to the Orgasm Tantric

TANTRISM TO THE ORGASM TANTRIC
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Tantra…Tantric orgasm
If Tantra is basically a spiritual power straight from India, today is a method to many Western couples to reach the 7th heaven. Every day seminars, workshops and training we are also proposed to achieve the tantric orgasm … But what Tantra? How to practice? What’s behind the term tantric orgasm? Decryption.
Tantra, a new method to achieve the seventh heaven? Far from it … If the past few years we hear of Tantra as a sexual practice, it is actually a life philosophy born there over 1500 years in India. Basically, we call a set of tantric texts and rituals which aims, through the exploration of the senses, to reach a total alertness.

Like yoga, tantra uses breathing and meditation as main tools of awakening. All the senses are stimulated in Tantric philosophy, including the senses called “carnal.” Hence the assimilation of a tantric sexual practice … It also speaks of tantric orgasm, a state of ecstasy which, according to those who have already tested (and approved!), Would be two three times stronger than a “classic” orgasm …

Is Tantra does it for me?

Tantra is mainly for couples: love and trust are two essential keys to achieve the tantric orgasm. Another prerequisite for playing the “game tantric” not consider sexual intercourse only as a means to achieve orgasm.

In the Tantric philosophy is the way that leads to orgasm is more important than the orgasm itself. Thus, we do not make love to achieve coitus but for all the fun and relaxation that comes from the union and fusion of the couple and the chemistry that emerges. Better indeed speak of discovery (carnal) our sense of sex. Conversely the quick sex, intercourse inspired tantric tends to push the point of orgasm to enjoy the fusion of the couple.

But then, what may suit couples Tantra? To all those who wish to “get” discover new sensations and love their lover (s) in a different way. However, test the tantric approach can be only two: if one partner is reluctant, it will hinder the tantric orgasm that requires a total relaxation of both partners.

Tantric Orgasm: what a difference a lambda orgasm?

Unlike “traditional” orgasm, orgasm tantric journey throughout the body and can be triggered without ejaculation there is no penetration. This is more of an explosion of the senses of the whole body as a localized orgasm in the pelvis. This is the principle of Tantrism: we no longer speak of sex but of discovering meaning in both. Thus, during sexual intercourse inspired Tantra, fellatio, cunnilingus and penetration are no longer essential to reach the seventh heaven.

But then what do we do? Mass and caress the body of his partner as a whole and not put all on the erogenous zones … The hands, legs, feet, back, shoulders and even the face: it is the set the body that must be stimulated, not just the breasts, buttocks or sex.

Remember then the G-spot and clitoris, they are not more important than the arm or neck … Indeed, the goal of Tantra (in the sexual sense) is the union and fusion of the couple. Making love in an approach inspired tantric back to listen to his body and that of his partner, while slowing the moment of orgasm. Each partner must go with pleasure, without seeking to cause orgasm while we even tend to forget. The idea is to just enjoy this merger with its partner, this slow, gradual rise of desire and pleasure. The energy of one is transmitted to the other and vice versa in a merger of the total torque, slow and without complex.

Unlike a lambda sex where one seeks to raise the fun as soon as possible by stimulating the erogenous zones, the watchword of Tantrism is: take your time! Remember when orgasm caused by a “coming and going” or clitoral stimulation … tantric orgasm vibrates the entire body, from head to toe and it is the whole body which is transcended. An orgasm can be achieved without there being penetration or ejaculation.

Tantra: how to slow the arrival of orgasm?

Tantric sex is the length: it can last two to three hours for experienced couples. While some couples prefer to avoid penetration to be sure to keep it as long as possible, you can reach the tantric orgasm while practicing it.

But when there is penetration, slowing the arrival of an orgasm requires real technique and a great habit. For this, we must succeed in mastering the contractions associated with the rise of pleasure, including musclant her perineum and adopting a relaxing breath. Or by making breaks at times. Breathing is a key element of the tantric orgasm: it must be slow, deep and help calm the contractions caused by the rise of excitement.

Generally, it fails to tantric orgasm at the first attempt: it takes time and practice to learn to control his pleasure, his excitement. Getting to meditation can be a solution to learn to lead her breath and calm his excitement. Workshops and introductory courses in Tantra can also be an interesting alternative for couples who want to try the experience of Tantric orgasm.

Clubs libertines… A practical changing!

Clubs libertines: a practical changing!

With the libertines clubs, Swingers is changing … Time macho willing to exchange their wives against another, to spice up their sex life is over. This practice of couples in search of plural sexuality, rejuvenated. And women have taken the

Swinging! Yesterday, it was a term quite “macho”, referring to a practice reserved for couples where sir, eager to spice up her sex life, “traded” his wife against that of another. “Swingers, it’s a bit old school of debauchery, where men are dominant, is now  * Explanation. The women are released! If the man is still often initiated through the door of a club, it is not unusual to experience frees some female fantasies. It even happens that men to be masters of the game, somewhat overwhelmed by the overflowing desires of they wife.

Club libertine night a singular institution

Clubs libertines The notion of kinky swingers club or club, as they were not frequented, still a little fuzzy, suggesting either the merry mess, or the creepy. The swingers club is a night establishment, dedicated to a diverse sexuality. In this unique place is generally found a bar, a dance floor, an exhibition bar spaces to romp and private rooms. More and more institutions are equipped with private rooms for couples or illegitimate libertines who do not wish to be seen by others. Some facilities also include saunas or steam rooms.

If the club more urban version borrows the appearance of a night club in the country, the “libertines” meet in real complex with Jacuzzi, sauna, swimming pool,

Mostly men and couples

“Most of the time, these are couples who come into a . However, some institutions accept single men, according to a specific quota … and more expensive rates. Indeed, the entry price is higher for a single for one woman, for whom the clubs are very accessible. Rates can range from 60 to 80 € about for a couple, and climb to more than 100 € for a man solo, against only 20 € or less for a woman.

Strangely, if the population becomes more diverse, the number of libertines remains constant. For proof, according to the INSERM survey in 2006, which reflects the evolution of the sexuality of French, 3.6% of men and 1.7% of women visited at least once in a club. And only 1 in 3 women and 3 men out of 5 went there to act. Whereas in 1992, the figures were around 4% of men and 1% of women.

Another important phenomenon of swinging around: a closure of the constantly growing clubs. One consequence of the crisis and the emergence swingers sites on the Internet, with the organization of private parties. There are risks,” warns our expert. We do not always know who you’re dealing with. His advice: It is best to attend clubs and then organize parties if affinities.

Plural motivations libertines club

The reasons for attending a club are plural. This practice is experiencing a real change, the concept of swapping has become almost quaint. The clientele is younger. These newly famous clubs “libertine dance clubs” affect 25/35 years. Sexual liberation of women opens new fields of exploration.

These new libertines are not necessarily couple for a long time, and it’s not only the will to break a routine under the duvet motivates their choices. They may just want to make love in front of others. A woman can go there for the pleasure of dancing naked without necessarily having the desire to take action. It can also search for a bisexual partner for an experiment.

On the downside, however! Some “libertines” are more motivated by a desire for sexual consumption, a couple approach in search of complicity … They frequent the clubs in search of immediate gratification, to give sensations. This population has grown with porn, and out in the evening with Viagra … 30 years!. A more behavior inspired by the performance of X than in the real libertinism …

A special atmosphere

Paradoxically, the clubs are very secure. Where in night clubs, it has become common for a woman to be dredged heavily, it is quite different clubs libertines. Anything goes, in a climate of respect. You can mater, dancing, caress you, without wanting to explore all the positions of the Kamasutra, nor make you fondle. A simple gesture or a “no” is enough to dismiss the application. If you want to have sex only with your partner, same …

In case of non compliance with these codes, the lout or (e) may be excluded. “It’s very guarded, incidents are.

A libertine club is not a cruising, we go for fun, not for “consuming sex.” Best for a good night out is to be open to others. Do not always try to meet beautiful people … some are less attractive but so much more festive and . No event is like another. Some are more murky than others too … To avoid disappointment, the easiest way is to use the guides. Or someone knowledgeable. Nothing beats word of mouth …

How I give you a Tantric Massage.

INITIATION STEP BY STEP

Aware of the difficulties some people may have to live from the outset a session of “Tantric Massage” as described in the relevant heading, I decided to offer sessions tailored to your level of evolution as well as  your limits.

Some people may wish to keep their underwear or even, do not be massaged fully in the first session. Others will not endure the body massage or body being hugged. The establishment of a climate of trust as well as the installation of a gradual and evolutionary process will prove necessary.

But you will progress at your own pace!

The freedom to be “self” is an initiatory journey … Sometimes you allow time to time. It has been so for ourselves.

We understand very well that he can be the same for you.

My wish is to accompany you on this journey at best, in any way put you in pain.

 

THE TANTRIC MASSAGE

This technique has its source in Tantra means “woven together” in Sanskrit.
Far from being complex and esoteric, it is a simple process, progressive, accessible to all who wish to find an easy and conscious way to bring the mind to sex, to honor sexual union as a bridge between the body and the soul.

It gives a new dimension to the experience of orgasm: here genital orgasm is not a goal in itself … it is only the beginning of a journey that explored and developed, leads to the ecstasy, a state of divine consciousness uniting us with the All. This is also the way to a “sacred sexuality” helping the body to be free of his armor, the heart to be open and trusting, and spirit to develop skills such as visualization, imagination and meditation. When this integration is done, you are ready for a new sensual and sexual experience, qualitatively richer in which physical pleasure becomes a delight the heart and an ecstasy of mind.

Fundamentally different from traditional massage techniques, here I will consider you in your entirety: body, heart, soul. All your energies will be stimulated, including your sexual energies known as Kundalini. Kundalini is an intense energy, coiled like a snake at the sacrum bone. This divine sexual energy, once awakened, leads the subject to the higher of the self-consciousness. The sessions take place in absolute nudity for both the recipient and the giver. The one bares literally and figuratively … down the masks! Each session is a prefocus to determine your motivations, your goals and your expectations.

For 60 minutes depending on the selected session, you will be massaged, loved, pampered, coddled, caressed with respect … every inch of your skin will be explored. Your Yoni or Lingam will hardly spared. All your senses will be awakened and titillated. You will be hugged and kissed tenderly (little kisses). I use their hands, forearms, fingers, body and

I will throughout this massage  encourage you to give you … to BE. Each session is unique because you are unique. Some people will laugh, cry or moan other. The fun will speak very easily for some, will be imperceptible to others. Our history, our joys and our sorrows are what we are at a particular moment. Some bodies locked too may react very surprisingly when breastplates collapse. Anyway, RELEASE MAKING! Give yourself the right to be who you are! Be aware that the quality of your experience depends largely on your ability to give up and to trust us. Together, these two ingredients you will live, I hope, a wonderful experience!

 

 

 

 

I Tryed Tantric Massage

TANTRIC METHOD,WHAT IS IT?

It is time to lift the confusion: tantric method, it consists of what? Michel: “It’s about learning to enter eroticism with the sole energy of the body, bypassing mental projections. Without making a film that turns the other into an object of enjoyment. Why look fictitious external images so that one is facing a real partner? “Carmen,” This is the experience of unity with oneself and with each other. You have to go up the genital energy throughout the body, so that orgasm radiates us completely and does not stay stuck in the pelvis. To achieve this alchemy between the bottom and the top, open each of our chakras, the energy centers located between the perineum and the fontanel. do you even lift

Maybe, but how is it done? Exercise: it gives the music a kind of pace that will crescendo, free of any melody. Legs apart and slightly bent, it sways the pelvis back and forth. “You have to feel the energy in the balls! “Claims Carmen. It undulates, it undulates. We breathe hard. “And now, it traces the energy! In the belly! “And above, in the chest, throat, in the head, faster … It’s hard, the muscles pull. A real gym class.

Girls choose a partner. Wave two is better. But if the gestures, breaths and groans of the assembly look like those of animals in heat, I do not feel even rising in me that famous energy. We repeat the exercise, this time lengthened. Same movements of the pelvis, a little less tiring, a little more sensual. Carmen same exhortations of “The scrotum! We do not forget the scrotum! “I end leached and I swear never to forget my p … scrotum

 

EXCHANGE OF ENERGY

The following exercise is softer. This time it is to communicate its energy to his partner. In the lotus position, face to face, palms against the palms, lulled by the hypnotic refrain of a Sufi mantra. “Do not let your eyes and open your heart, asks Michael. But do not try to seduce. “Message received? At the end of the year – fifteen minutes of intense gaze – my partner tells me that she felt in me a strong energy enclosed in a steel shell. For energy, I do not know, but for the shell, well, it is not wrong. The following sequence should just help me loosen some bolts. Because now we enter the heart of the matter: Tantric massage for all.

 

I MASSAGE YOU, YOU MASSAGE ME

Everyone gets undressed, the two most modest – which I am – do not keep a sarong. Even Jane, who had thought ahead a simple conference on Tantra, is in a thong. Fourth surprise: I discovered that – as long as we talk to him nicely – anyone can get naked and let knead by unknown hands. Two participants are involved in a third. I am entitled to the expertise of Carmen and a young yoga teacher. Carmen says that we must consider all parts of the body with the same neutrality. “Fondling a toe or a penis, it is similar, if we do not put fantasy. “Even the scrotum? “The whole body is sacred, it should be treated with respect. “OK. Let’s go.

Lying with his eyes closed, in a full of sighs bliss, everyone indulges like a baby the pleasure of being hit by four hands, without taboo. If an erection advertisement? “No problem, say Carmen, it is nature. “Michael reminds us still to focus on the sensations and hunt projections. There will be no erection. And, curiously, no frustration either. We would like it just does not stop. Fully relaxed, I finally understand what sensations to send me this experience.

To those we have all known a summer afternoon when, to escape the heat, we gently stretches naked in the shade of a room. We can bend, certainly, but without trying to precipitate action. A clenching a brief genital drive, we prefer a bit lazy, being invaded by a gentle relaxation of the body. Two, they love naps can last for hours. And these are the best. I leave the session with two certainties: the tantric path can allow us any time to recreate this summer paradise for body and mind, and ejaculation can wait. It may not even be a goal. Thirty years of priapic convictions come to collapse, and I do not even wrong.

 

TANTRA OR SEXUALITY LIVED AS A MEDITATION

Reduce the tantric sexuality would be an aberration. Indeed, it is on the fertile soil of Hinduism and Buddhism that Tantrism appeared in India in the seventh century, as a complex spiritual current. It offers the awareness of our fundamental unity of body and mind, in connection with the universe at all times and in all life.

This approach involves learning of our dual polarity, male and female, and acceptance of our whole reality, with its shadows and lights. This is the uniqueness of Tantra as not to be a philosophy of renunciation: “It is no longer necessary to flee the body to find peace,  because the body itself becomes a sacred temple: the place of bliss.

Sexuality is experienced as a meditation where, through breathing and body relaxation techniques, each partner may feel a sense of profound unity with himself and with each other. For completeness, orgasm can not therefore be strictly genital, and men are encouraged to achieve without ejaculation. It is no longer about  master it, but to be able to forget.

Tantric Massage

 

Tantra massage tips

 

FR

J’essaye de vous trouver une video qui montre un vrai massage tantrique sensuel où la femme masse toutes les parties du corps de l’homme avec toutes les parties de son corps. Je ne vois que des massages faits avec les mains. Beaucoup d’articles sont écris sur le sujet mais je pense que pour apprendre un massage il faut voir et non lire. Donc je cherche des vidéos et non je n’en trouve pas d’assez intéressantes. Celles qui le sont sont censurées bien sur, comme d’habitude. Vive la Belgique!

EN

I try to find you a video that shows a true sensual tantric massage where the wife mass all parts of the man body with all parts of her body. I see only massages made with hands. Many articles are written on the subject but I think to learn a massage must be seen and not read. So I’m looking videos and I do not find it interesting enough. Those that are good are  censored of course, as usual. Long live Belgium!

FR (thank you to translate it with Translate google )

Le sexe tantrique tente de mettre deux partenaires d’amour ensemble dans plus que juste une manière physique. Le mot Tantra est sanskrit et est dérivé de la racine du mot sens tan “d’étendre, élargir, diffusion, continuera, spin out, armure, de mettre en avant ou manifeste.” L’idée est d’étendre votre esprit et englober votre corps pour atteindre le satisfaction ultime. Dans la pratique du Tantra, il ya une sorte de «conscience-être-bonheur” qui a le pouvoir d’auto-évolution et auto-involution (apprentissage et d’approfondissement et à la recherche sur soi). par conséquent, l’évolution de l’auto aide pour amener deux personnes à se rapprocher.

Un élément essentiel de Tantra prend du temps de se absorber en soi et votre partenaire. Les méthodes apprises et utilisées dans le sexe tantrique fournissent sensations et le plaisir sexuel beaucoup plus intense et complexe qu’un orgasme simple. Dans le sexe tantrique, l’orgasme est tout simplement un sous-produit de la connectivité nous nous sentons avec notre partenaire.

Vous commencez par créer un environnement qui est exempt de distractions, une zone qui est calme, calme et paisible. Votre espace sacré doit être propre de l’encombrement, décoré pacifiquement, chaleureux et accueillant. Comme vous allez être nu, la pièce doit être aussi bien au chaud de la température. Rien ne vous déconnecte de votre amant comme un corps frissonnant. Jouer de la musique douce, allumant des bougies, et être à l’aise sont tous particulièrement important dans la création d’un environnement tantrique.

Une fois que vous êtes dans votre amour paradis, se asseoir sur le lit, face à l’autre, regarder dans les yeux les uns des autres, et tout simplement respirer. Vous devez entrer en contact avec le rythme de l’autre. Vous inspirez et expirez à dessein, en accordant une attention au rythme de votre amant. Comme vous continuez à respirer ensemble, vous devenez plus proche spirituellement, plus détendu et plus à l’écoute. Le plus à l’écoute que vous êtes, plus conscients et connecté.

Le sexe tantrique est pas une course à la finition. Le sexe tantrique est lente et réfléchie, mais amusant. Alors que Tantristes traditionnels pratiquer l’amour lente pendant des heures et des heures, la personne moyenne à essayer d’apprendre Tantra ne va pas avoir la patience ou, franchement, la volonté de consacrer ce moment. L’idée est de ne pas se précipiter, de vous amuser et faire comme très excité que vous le pouvez.

L’idée de base ici est de caresser, accident vasculaire cérébral, lécher, toucher, embrasser, et autrement taquiner et profiter de l’autre. Vous pouvez prendre des virages avec une lente, massage séduisante ou tout simplement se asseoir et se toucher lentement. Rendre hommage au corps de votre amant – tout cela. Cela signifie que les oreilles, le nez, le cou, le ventre, les cuisses, les pieds, et ainsi de suite. L’objectif est de se familiariser, détendu, et suscité par la personne tout entière, et pas seulement le pénis ou le vagin si vous pouvez inclure un massage Lingam et Yoni dans le cadre de vos ébats amoureux.

Lorsque vous commencez la phase de rapport sexuel proprement dit, il est important de vous amener à un état d’excitation, puis laissez-vous vers le bas. Cela signifie, pendant que vous faites l’amour, quand l’homme se sent son orgasme imminente, il doit arrêter, respirer, descendre un peu, et puis continuer à plaisir son partenaire et lui-même. Ce ne construit pas seulement un niveau énorme de tension sexuelle, mais il développe également la maîtrise de soi, renforce le lien émotionnel et rend la version finale dix fois plus intense.

Finalement, les deux partenaires vont arriver au point où ils doivent libérer. Depuis le sexe tantrique implique une connexion totale, que vous vous apprêtez à sortir votre tension sexuelle, assurez-vous de regarder profondément dans les yeux de votre amant, sentir leur respiration, et de communiquer vos sentiments. Quand un couple est connecté de cette manière, l’orgasme qui vient sera totalement avalement. Orgasme ne signifie pas que voyage se termine bien. Prenez le temps de se connecter avec un autre, et votre propre voie vers l’illumination commencera.