TANTRIC METHOD,WHAT IS IT?
It is time to lift the confusion: tantric method, it consists of what? Michel: “It’s about learning to enter eroticism with the sole energy of the body, bypassing mental projections. Without making a film that turns the other into an object of enjoyment. Why look fictitious external images so that one is facing a real partner? “Carmen,” This is the experience of unity with oneself and with each other. You have to go up the genital energy throughout the body, so that orgasm radiates us completely and does not stay stuck in the pelvis. To achieve this alchemy between the bottom and the top, open each of our chakras, the energy centers located between the perineum and the fontanel. do you even lift
Maybe, but how is it done? Exercise: it gives the music a kind of pace that will crescendo, free of any melody. Legs apart and slightly bent, it sways the pelvis back and forth. “You have to feel the energy in the balls! “Claims Carmen. It undulates, it undulates. We breathe hard. “And now, it traces the energy! In the belly! “And above, in the chest, throat, in the head, faster … It’s hard, the muscles pull. A real gym class.
Girls choose a partner. Wave two is better. But if the gestures, breaths and groans of the assembly look like those of animals in heat, I do not feel even rising in me that famous energy. We repeat the exercise, this time lengthened. Same movements of the pelvis, a little less tiring, a little more sensual. Carmen same exhortations of “The scrotum! We do not forget the scrotum! “I end leached and I swear never to forget my p … scrotum
EXCHANGE OF ENERGY
The following exercise is softer. This time it is to communicate its energy to his partner. In the lotus position, face to face, palms against the palms, lulled by the hypnotic refrain of a Sufi mantra. “Do not let your eyes and open your heart, asks Michael. But do not try to seduce. “Message received? At the end of the year – fifteen minutes of intense gaze – my partner tells me that she felt in me a strong energy enclosed in a steel shell. For energy, I do not know, but for the shell, well, it is not wrong. The following sequence should just help me loosen some bolts. Because now we enter the heart of the matter: Tantric massage for all.
I MASSAGE YOU, YOU MASSAGE ME
Everyone gets undressed, the two most modest – which I am – do not keep a sarong. Even Jane, who had thought ahead a simple conference on Tantra, is in a thong. Fourth surprise: I discovered that – as long as we talk to him nicely – anyone can get naked and let knead by unknown hands. Two participants are involved in a third. I am entitled to the expertise of Carmen and a young yoga teacher. Carmen says that we must consider all parts of the body with the same neutrality. “Fondling a toe or a penis, it is similar, if we do not put fantasy. “Even the scrotum? “The whole body is sacred, it should be treated with respect. “OK. Let’s go.
Lying with his eyes closed, in a full of sighs bliss, everyone indulges like a baby the pleasure of being hit by four hands, without taboo. If an erection advertisement? “No problem, say Carmen, it is nature. “Michael reminds us still to focus on the sensations and hunt projections. There will be no erection. And, curiously, no frustration either. We would like it just does not stop. Fully relaxed, I finally understand what sensations to send me this experience.
To those we have all known a summer afternoon when, to escape the heat, we gently stretches naked in the shade of a room. We can bend, certainly, but without trying to precipitate action. A clenching a brief genital drive, we prefer a bit lazy, being invaded by a gentle relaxation of the body. Two, they love naps can last for hours. And these are the best. I leave the session with two certainties: the tantric path can allow us any time to recreate this summer paradise for body and mind, and ejaculation can wait. It may not even be a goal. Thirty years of priapic convictions come to collapse, and I do not even wrong.
TANTRA OR SEXUALITY LIVED AS A MEDITATION
Reduce the tantric sexuality would be an aberration. Indeed, it is on the fertile soil of Hinduism and Buddhism that Tantrism appeared in India in the seventh century, as a complex spiritual current. It offers the awareness of our fundamental unity of body and mind, in connection with the universe at all times and in all life.
This approach involves learning of our dual polarity, male and female, and acceptance of our whole reality, with its shadows and lights. This is the uniqueness of Tantra as not to be a philosophy of renunciation: “It is no longer necessary to flee the body to find peace, because the body itself becomes a sacred temple: the place of bliss.
Sexuality is experienced as a meditation where, through breathing and body relaxation techniques, each partner may feel a sense of profound unity with himself and with each other. For completeness, orgasm can not therefore be strictly genital, and men are encouraged to achieve without ejaculation. It is no longer about master it, but to be able to forget.