I had the idea for this approach because I face regularly to a number of gentlemen who share that they are in need of tenderness, sweets, hugs … for a variety of reasons: absence of a partner (celibacy, bereavement, divorce …) spouse not available for this kind of exchange, fear of contact (past abused (e), domestic violence …), …
When this lack of hugs becomes a daily habit, there comes a time when our memory and especially our body memory does not even know what a smooth sharing time. We lost the “manual” … we do not even know how to dare to enter again into a single body contact to another? So imagine the difficulty in a body contact “skin to skin”!
The objectives of this approach:
In a climate of trust and respect, you can (re) learn in this area gently
How do I show to the other my desire to make body contact with him / her?
How can I receive the body contact request from the other?
How can I put my limit in body contact while respecting me and respecting the other?
What I feel and what my body feels as soft bodily attentions of the other?
How to (re) learn that the tenderness of contact, gentleness, hugs can also live without any genital approach sex?
The tantric massage is the answer to the lack of tenderness but also to the orgasm which is important to have a good psychologic and physic health.