Among the multitude of erotic games that engages humanity since it has the opportunity, spanking has a special place, a special aura that gives it the indulgence of the less adventurous and recognition erotic explorers. Its gently wicked character, hardly painful, punishing just a tad naughty, transgressive tad arouse a form of affection and tenderness.
Spanking is somehow the little pampers naughty games, the one that nobody ever wants to criticize frankly and perhaps one of the few who always adorn an obvious touch of humor.
What is an erotic spanking?
This is a game between two partners which is for one to molest the posterior of the other and in which each is émoustillement and pleasure. Sexual arousal is found at different levels:
Submission and punishment: they are at the heart of BDSM games as they play on both the relationship of domination and the sadomasochistic practice.
The scenario: seeking to justify the reprimand, the couple and develop stories that explain this spanking. The servant who has not served, the student who has not learned well …
Physical contact: buttocks is an erogenous zone of choice, the one receiving the punishment relishes these supported caresses while the partner inflicting the correction comes into direct contact with this tender sexual area. Moreover, in the classic position of spanking that consists mostly to lengthen the corrected on the correction, it is possible to let go of the hand that does not strike to other anatomical regions …
The ambiguity: In childhood, spanking has no character is synonymous with fun and unpleasant punishment. In adulthood, a hand comes in contact with the buttocks instead becomes a form of erotic pleasure. Adult spanking plays the ambiguity.
Some accessories to punish posterior
Hand: classic accessory that has been proven, the hand is the best beginner’s tool because it allows better control of such intensity … Once flat, no more than to shoot more or less ardently on the back that has deserved.
Paddle: It can be wood, covered with leather, metal … The flat surface allows broad slaps on the buttocks. More painful than the hand, you have to use it with moderation, at least not more than what your partner can endure.
The Sensua whip whip LELOLe: For the breakdown rather than slap, whip exists in several versions depending on the power shots that we want to impose. The straps soft and very flexible leather will be solid rather than in wild caress punishment …
The whip: Similar to those used to move a horse, more rigid than the strips of the same whip if there is again different models, you have to curb his impulses and do not forget a tender human rump, tender and pink does not have the strength of a tourniquet race standard …
Some teachers ‘professional’ also recommend more traditional everyday objects such as hair brush, wooden spoon, fly swatter … That is to say anything that may hurt a little, but not too much!
What spanking zone?
Duff refers to a region of the body rather vague and it is important not to go too fiercely romp outside the playing area.
Anyway, there is no point spread, the erogenous zone is limited to what is called the seat area, that is to say, this soft and rounded part on which one sits … Below you reach the thighs and sciatic nerves to avoid mistreating and above, you may hit the tail bone and kidneys, which is painful, absolutely not erogenous and not recommended for health.
The rules of “Spanker”
The term “spanker” that signie “professor” in English is often found to refer to people who practice this discipline. Anglophones have moult websites and books on the subject and there are several communities of followers.
These experts, if you were to pass by, you would say that both partners spank spank and are in joy and good humor provided you follow certain rules.
As the practice of BDSM games including spanking is more or less a branch, it is necessary to make a contract between the two parties that defines the limits not to be exceeded and describes the desires of the one and the other depending on the context (spanking in public or private, with or without accessories …). And to leave the game and return to reality at any time, a “safe word” magic word that stops everything, must first be established.